Tuesday, November 5, 2013

More Gems




















Note by Me: Courtney is something special. She is a real Black Woman who was born in Louisiana and was raised in the state of NY. She is my Dear Friend, my intellectual equal, and a great human being. We both communicate with each other in private. I love her. I am not going to front about how I feel about her. She knows how I feel about her. :) Yes, I love her as a great Friend. She is a great human being.

By Timothy (Me)



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Courtney: Hello Truth. :I see you are forever schooling folks along with a few others.:) How was your day?

Me: Hello Sister Courtney :)
My day has been great. I feel happy and my soul is inspired. The NBA Season is starting with games from TNT. Yes, Sister. School is in session and we love showing the truth. :) Justice for black humanity is what we and tons of other Brothers and Sisters here support greatly.
How are you doing today?


Courtney: :) Good. Just finished putting a desk together. fun times. smh. Thank you.So you are happy and inspired because the NBA Season started? lol As I Told you, The KNICKS are winning a title this year. :)

Me: For real though, You are Real, True, and Honorable Black Queen.
You have a great Light and I know that your future will be very excellent.
I do believe that me learning from you and vice versa is not an accident. I will always encourage you to be yourself too and express your great swag too. I will always pray for you great happiness, joy, peace, and long life as a real Brother would.
So, Goodnight to you Sista Courtney. :)
I respect you a great deal. :)
TTYL :)
Peace and Blessings to You.
YOU ARE JUST A REAL WOMAN, BLACK QUEEN COURTNEY.
:)


Courtney: And you are an honorable Black Man. King. We never stop learning , and never stop reaching. Your spirit is full of brightness, in a real way. Always walk your path, not what others think you should. Continue to connect to good energy through the steps of life. So, I pray for you and your family, and all the rest of the real people here,
Have a goodnight and peaceful night and will TTYL. Thank you. :)

Me: P.S. Thank you Sister.
Your words mean a lot to me. From the bottom of my heart, thank you.
:)

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Courtney: Truth, thank you for what you wrote about us as BLACK WOMEN. The fact that their isn't conflict between many black women and men on this site and they we show each other the same respect, we show our families ,friends, people alike, only means that a female like herself, is here to CREATE CONFLICT when she and OTHERS CLEARY SEE ,,their isnt any. These kind of people have an agenda and they fail to realize that, they get their misguided information about black people, black women and men, from stereotypes that they heard, witnesssed from tv, or some other misguided form of information that they LOVE to paint anyone that WEARS brown skin with. Sit back long enough, they will reveal themselves. Secondly, what would any of us gain by using someone on the net? have we promised anything to anyone here or material gains ,etc? YOu see. These kind of people deal on a different level of communicating with others.When a person has wickedness in their heart that fuels them,its not hard to lower themselves to using others, creating issues, when their are none.. In all actuality ,the charge that she charged us with is ridiculous and it says more about her and those that think like her , than it does about the people they are trying to setup ,conquer and divide.

You sit back long enough, and they always reveal themselves. Its beyond silly, immature and seriously, not a bright thing to say when she or anyone else, has not done the research, or asked why people feel the way they do.The disrespectful come in many forms.They start to attack what they can't get over on. What I mean by this is the behavior that they so eloquently state about anyone that is not or a certain color. Hilarious.smh Anyway,
As she stated to you, she does not KNOW THE history on here between (THOSE WOMEN ) as she put it and who started what. So when a person does not go back to the beginning to find out how things started,or asked since they seem to care by asking you certain things and stating certain things, they have an agenda. Im glad to see that the harrasser in question, has a fan. She has a right to believe what ever she wants. Their are always 3 sides to an issue. A beginning and when any piece of trash male on here comes out of their mouth disrespecting women first, you better believe women will defend themselves . Especially when the site has been asked to correct it. When it is proven that the site does not care, then those women have every right to defend themselves against the disrespect that was shown to them. Its a pattern with this type . No black woman on here, started anything with that person..But no one better not tell me how to deal with it either..Whatever..
Thank you TRUTH.

Me: Thank you for words Courtney,

You have always been real including other Brothers and Sisters. I am more spiritually inclined now. It is obviously that we as Brothers and Sisters can dialogue with each other, communicate, and appreciate our insights. We are not using each other. That is totally silly. We are communicating with each other, inspiring each other, and loving each other as allies in this fight for black liberation. I will continue forward in my life. I wish you the best Sister. Thank your for your prayers for me and my relatives. I will pray for you tonight before I go to sleep including your relatives too. That is the type of man that I am. Black women like you are strong and resilient. You deserve real dignity and real respect. We should strive for excellence and slandering Sisters have nothing to do with building a community. Building a community means inspiring Brothers and Sisters to do better and to believe in the each other. I believe in you. I cherish you, Dear Sister. It also entails constructive action from mentoring to funding businesses (including to educate black people on conscious issues). We are family. You are my Sister. I am your Brother, so I want you to be the best that you can be. That is what it is all about, Dear Heart. From the poor to the rich of our people, from the Brother from NYC to the Sister from Ghana, we are one black African people. That is why I reject faux stereotypes and just stick with reality. A divide and conquer strategy will never work on me (as has been shown by racists). The reality is that Black Love has nothing to do with hating them. It has to do with building up ourselves.
YOU'RE WELCOME COURTNEY. :)


Courtney: You said in your response, you are cordial with any human being here. TRUTH. Thats how I was with the disrespectful male here. Like those I mentioned. When he does not like how someone thinks etc, he goes on the attack. Its a good thing I backed up the history on my external. Everyone that followed this, knows the truth. He also does it to anyone that does not align with his kind of thinking. Like, get over yourself. This kind cant be talked too so once the SO CALLED CONTROLLING tactic took over, played along for a bit until it got tiring..Here we are 9 months or so later and still doing the same thing. smh. Adults know how to live and let live.Remember, people pick at people who are a threat for some reason. They are in their own world. They can stay there. But if anyone wants to communicate , im all ears until they start acting like a horses as.I find it comical that they want to send females now. smh.Whatever. lol

As I wish you the best as well. Along with others here.I wish you the best because you deserve the best and im not speaking on anything material but those things that many are lacking in their hearts.I appreciate you. I appreciate SOULTRY, AMIRAH, EJ, DANDE, BROSHABBAZZ,EDUD01, JOHN is back,JAZZ,and others who are about building, being respectful, dialoguing ,joking, having some fun, expressing concern about issues.
LOVE is BEAUTIFUL. So that means, BLACK love is beautiful like all other kinds of love. Whether it be YT on YT, ASIAN on ASIAN, LATIN on LATIN, IR, etc. A person against Black love of any race, is a person that does not believe in LOVE PERIOD. :)

Me:  Great Words, Sister Courtney. That is what I love about you and you know how I feel about you. :) .
I agree with all of your words 100 Percent.
I am glad that Brother John Henry is back here. I remember that we talked about the Black Panthers and the civil war months ago. I respect Jazz's humor. I love Mirah's TX swag. I respect Edud's wisdom on white supremacy. I respect BroShabbaz's Strength. I love Soultry Soul's love of family and humor. I love Dandelion's relentless power and intellect, etc. There are so many Brothers and Sisters that are real here. You are real too Courtney. That disrespectful male unleashed slander unheard of by me in the Internet. Now, others are expecting grown women to just take it. That is illogical and silly. Black women have every right to strongly refute the lies and slander from that sick, misguided male. He started it and I do respect the Sisters showing their responses to that sick male. He always hates anyone that harbors a dissenting point of view. I made my peace in this affair and he continued to stalk me showing horrendous profanity against me. So, I set the record straight and other folks do not like it when we set it straight. It doesn't make sense. Yes, Love is Love.

We are human beings. Black Love is Human Love too. For me personally, the only human that fulfills my heart romantically is the black woman. The black woman is my greatest ally. There are no words to describe the dignity, sensitivity, wisdom, and strength of black women. Also, I appreciate black men doing what is right too. We black men are strong, resilient, powerful, and important in the world today. So, we can learn from each other, joke, laugh, and just have a great time in our community. That is why we are still here. We are one and we will persist forever. We have the right to call for justice.

Courtney: When have you or any other male known any real black woman to take anything slandered against her? :) Some of it is so ridiculous its not worth mentioning. I get that too but I felt compelled to say something. Again, always a way to do things so when you unleash that realness, you know you are standing on the right side of issues. :)What he did to you is what he does to just about everyone who thinks a certain way. Sgt WAters again. :) I see ultimate beauty in black love ,not that I am against any other form of love but black people speaking up for black love , should not be looked down upon.not by other races ,or by some of our own.The issue lies with them. I could never be ashamed of the two that made me. Everyone you mentioned are very intelligent and great human beings.

Me: I know.
Holla at Homegirl Erica for me Sis. :)

Courtney: Hey EJ!!!! :) What up Mirah and Dande wherever you are. :)

Me: :)

Courtney:  Goodnight Truth.Thank you for defending what is right. I appreciate you as well as all of us.
Have a really goodnight and TTYL :)


Me: Good night to you Courtney. :)
TTYL :)
Peace and Blessings to You
You know that a Brother has Sisters' Backs :)
You're Welcome.


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On our late Brother Kendrick Johnson, RIP.

Courtney: Somebody knows what happened. Somebody saw something ,knows something or heard something.This is beyond disgusting. smh


Me: Yes, it is a disturbing situation. Why was the video footage released immediately instead of so later on. If the federal authorities is taking over the case, then local authorities made extreme errors in attempting to deciphering the truth of Kendrick Johnson's death. Justice ought to be given to the Johnson family. The video footage being released outlines some new information to the wider pubic. The second autopsy shows unique information. How his organs were treated is beyond horrid. I believe that the finding of real answers may take a while. Also, Hello to you Courtney. :) How do you feel today?

Courtney: That family is strong to be so calm.On HLN, they showed the disturbing pic of Kendrick Post mortem with a bruise on his face. The picture will make anyone absolutely upset and angry. To see a beautiful child like he was, laying dead , not looking anything like himself, says it all Truth. Somebody is going to answer for that and they will find them. Its time for black men to watch over black men and boys because, they think these kind of acts, are a joke or something. I dont care what color a person is, to see that picture of him, with his family having to see him like that, and looking at him like that, will touch anybody who has a heart,who calls themselves a human being, and is about right and wrong. Somebody did something to him.smh

Me: I know. The family is very strong. I do not know what I would do in their shoes. I can never imagine losing a close family members in that horrendous fashion. They are going through incredible pain and heartbreak. It is a tragedy and the harm done to the young Brother is beyond words. There should be huge accountability not only to those who caused his death, but to those who stole his organs as well. Indeed, more black men should look after black men and black boys. The day of naivete is over. Black masculine power is always great to advance in the black community. Black men have every right to legitimately help black boys, show their strength, and to believe in justice for all in society.


We are blessed to have real Fathers in our lives. My father directed me to follow strength and he made me aware how the world is. So, male adults should mentor the youth more.
So, real black men should be active to assist the black youth as a means for the youth to achieve their highest potential in life. Many of the youth need guidance and real strength from men. For the masculine and feminine influences in world are valuable in the human race. Answers should be given in this case. The pictures are disturbing and regardless of someone's color, this event does strike real emotions. No one deserves how Kendrick Johnson was treated irrespective of color. Kendrick was disrespected even after he was passed by those who allowed his organs to be missing.

Courtney: Absolutely.When you look at his mother and father, but just paying attention to the mother, its like she has no words.I cant imagine. Black boys and men have to understand that rule that,they are a threat.And to keep their eyes open for one another.When other men see that the older ones, who teach and protect the younger males, and see that kind of strength, it kind of makes it a bit harder to isolate and target black men and males,one by one.It has to be a understanding .As you stated, the masculine and feminine influences of the world ,have to work hand in hand, to teach,uplift, give knowledge and wisdom, leadership to those younger , who need teaching and guidance to help keep them moving forward, uplifting one another and watching each others backs .Kendrick deserves answers. Like Trayvon, Like Jordan Davis and those that are guilty, deserve the consequences of their actions. Whatever they are..

Me:  Goodnight Sister Courtney :)
It has been a great discussion. It is great for your words to be shown here, because you make me think and analyze important issues of our community. In my life, I am more spiritual. I am more moral in my life now and I am glad. I feel more compassion in my heart. I feel different from many years ago. I will continue to fight faithfully for the liberation of our people like you do (and others). You have my back and I have yours forever and ever. I am happy and I am appreciative of the sacrifices that were made by our people, so we could have the opportunities that we have in the 21st century. I am not going to front on how I feel. You know how I feel about you. I respect you and I greatly appreciate your views on issues. :)
TTYL
Peace and Blessings to You.
Have a Great Sleep, Great Black Queen Courtney. :)

Courtney: Hello TRUTH :) Good evening. :) I loved the discussion yesterday..I'm happy to be able to converse with REAL MEN such as yourself and others here as well as REAL WOMEN. You are always upstanding towards me and other women too because that comes from the respect of knowing and acknowledging that you were raised by an outstanding Woman, BLACK WOMAN, who helped to nurture and guide you in understanding how a MAN should relate to a woman, the right way. That does not mean in any way that you cant handle your business from the masculine. You just know how to control it and that was shown by your Outstanding Father. Keep handling the real simps on this site because the ones calling you that, are the ones in last place. Believe that. :) Thank you for writing back . I'm a bit renewed today after a long week. And yes, I do know. I respect you too. Thank you.

Me: Hello Courtney :)
How are you doing this Evening and Good Evening to you.:)
Yes, it was a great discussion yesterday and it was an important one (because our late Brother Kendrick deserves justice). You bring out the best wisdom out of me at times. It is excellent to communicate with real women like you and with real men as well. That is part of life and God with foreknowledge so to speak differentially envisioned us communicating with each other with respect and great inspiration. Thank for your kind words about my Mother. I was raised by a real great Black Mother like your Great Black Mother and your Father raised great values in you. My mother taught me about inspiration, strength, humor (since my mother has an amazing sense of humor. I can tell you stories about that for days). Also, I was raised by a great Father that taught me manhood, responsibility, strength, and never giving up in life. Yes, I will always respect you and women since without the Black Woman, I will never have existed in the world today. Yes, I respect my masculinity too. It takes true masculinity to build up males and to love females as well. I love females too. Thank you for your kinds words about my Father. You are such a Sweetheart and I feel so much joy and happiness when I dialogue with you. I am glad that you are renewed in your strength. I will always respect you and respect Black Women including Black Men. I will always fight for justice (and you keep on fighting for the justice for your late Father too).

Courtney: I'm good truth. How are you doing? I have to put two daybed together. lol Its for mom. :) I was just pooped out by the end of this week but got sleep last night...Thank you.
I'm glad to know that you see that in me. Their is much to learn from one another and from people in general.NO need for so many people to be hostile for no reason at all on here.You know the types I 'm talking about . Of course not ever talking about the people who stand up to these ignorant fools.Your parents are a blessing and I respect them.

Me: I am going great Insightful Sista. :)
I am constantly learning new information.
Hey, handle your business for your mother Sweetie. God Bless your Mother. She is a great woman. Last week, I was extremely tired and now I have great energy. I think it is because of my competitiveness. I am glad that you are greatly rested.
Yes, we all know the types that you are talking about (folks that are angry for no reason, those who use slander, those who are bigots, those who are women-haters, and the religious hypocrite that we all know). Thank you for your words about my parents Sister. They are active in the local civic league, they have worked with helping children, they give clothing to charities, and they have assisted my other relatives during my other relatives' financial rainy days. My family has been blessed in many ways. They are set for life. I respect your family too. They are strong, filled with humor, and filled with wisdom.

Courtney: :) I was at home depot trying to find the right bolts and stuff. I needed 24. The guy that worked there was laughing at me. lol. We figured it out. I sure didnt want to go back there to change them out. 24 of them. Yeah, I was feeling like you were feeling last week. Its rare I get tired like that but it does happen after high energy after a while.Thank you about my mom. She loves her day beds. smh .lol
Those people are a waste but we can learn much from them on how not to be. :) Civic center. :) My dad ran one when I was a teenager. It was a great, safe ,hangout spot and I would go with him to hang out. :) Your parents are doing a wonderful thing. Guiding ,giving back. My mom can do great impressions and its hysterical. I mean ,on point with everything. I love it when she does Lucille Ball but she can do anyone she see's. lmao. Its so funny and my dad would be laughing and shaking his head. Great memories.


Me: Those deluded folks do teach us on how not to be as you have said. I said that before too. :)
Your mother doing impressions is cool. I can do impressions as well of numerous celebrities and so forth. Your mother is humorous like my mother. My mother has the Southern accent and just expresses funny comments about shows including about society in general. My father is a blue collar man. He talks with a very strong masculine voice. He talks more manly than any man I know. He talks similar to the actor John Amos. Your father running a civic center is great. Your late Father was a real Black Man. He contributed to your family and he worked to advance improvements in your community. He sacrificed his time as a means to provide for you and he helped to save lives during 9/11. Kudos to your family. Therefore, these great facts about your wonderful family should be recognized and praised. Our memories about our parents shape us They inspire us and our parents are just real human beings. Home Depot is a great spot. I went to one near the Mall in my area. 24? o_0 Well, you have to do what you have to do for your mother. I appreciate that. We do great things for our mothers. God Bless your Mother Sweetie. :)

Courtney: Funny because my dad always reminded me of John Amos. He was very much like that..Big ,hardworking, talked liked him as well. lol.When he was serious, he meant what he said for real. He had the biggest hands ever. Yeah, mom is nuts. lol in a good way. You just sit around listening to her tell a story about what somebody did and re enact it, and you would literally be in stitches. Just like your mom, she is from Louisiana ,the south but speaks very clear. She does not have a southern drawl and I think its because my grandpa was a teacher and principal and they put emphasis on speaking clearly. Its a straight up comedy show when she gets going.She would get going telling dad something and he would be laughing lol.They were a great team and always together.They never worried about each other for real. Thanks for the memory. :)

Me: You're Welcome. :)
Our parents are there for us and they deserve all of the props in the world. Our fathers inspire us. Your father reminds you of John Amos as well. That is great. The love of family and just loving our people are great realities that we endorse. The love between Brothers and Sisters is great since God is Love. Your mother is a comedian. That is fine with since laughing loudly at times is great for our souls. I know your mother caused you to laugh loudly when see told your family jokes. We need to laugh sometimes and we as a people are very diverse. My mother was raised in a rural community, so she maintained her country accent even now. There is nothing wrong with speaking clearly. Your parents acting as a team is a great display right there of BLACK LOVE. We all love our parents and we love the truth.

Courtney: They always are and absolutely were there every step of the way.We are blessed and so are others and even for those that didn't have that, they have a chance to give that gift to their own kids and break that cycle. kids grow up to be adults and they never forget what was done for them. Just try your best but most importantly, always be there for them.Thats making a difference.We don't have to repeat that cycle because we may not of gotten certain things . give that gift to the next generation because it makes a huge difference. Thats pure love for real. Nothing wrong with an accent . :) They were the greatest example of LOVE and BLACK LOVE that I witnessed first. I'm very proud of them for sticking together. That was very impressionable on me and I respect that a great deal. You are blessed to have your parents. :) Like many others on here too.

Me: Excellent Words Sista Courtney.
Your words exemplify what it is all about. The Black Love
among both of our parents is long-lasting and potent. My parents have been married for over 40 years and I appreciate them a lot. I saw their wedding photos from back in the day too (Yes, my Father wore an Afro back then. LOL. It is what it is) and their marriage outlines true LOVE. True LOVE is very powerful and it is just about goodwill and doing legitimate actions. It is about caring and being compassionate with each other. Their love surely has been inspiring and wonderful. They gave me educational opportunities and they are my excellent supporters in my life. Our families are our great allies. From school work to sports activities, they encouraged us in those affairs and they were always in our corners. Children should be encouraged to strive for excellence. Breaking that cycle is important, because it is just like a new beginning. That action of breaking the cycle will cause growth of new families and basic social development in families. Some break the cycle by being in the lives of their children, ending certain habits, or just being excellent parents to their own children. Yes, having an accent is great. I love my special accent too. :) We are all blessed to have our parents. :) Others have what we have in our parents and families.
God Bless you Courtney and your Family. :)


Courtney:  Goodwill and being compassionate enriches lives. Bless your parents for making it 40 years and another 40 to them. :) They were meant to be and that's beautiful that they continue to make the effort and see value in that. Today, everything is so instant. People throw away people like tissue.. It is madness in my opinion but then you have those people who can see through the illusion of society. I think the quote is, be in the world but not of it. This speaks to a higher understanding of a certain order that many believe it not to be of any importance. We are seeing why it is everyday, why this quote rings true.. Basically,try to navigate around things to make wiser decisions for ourselves. Its a hard thing to do but worth it to try and to grow from mistakes to gain greater understanding about what really is important.
A childs greatest influence is what he sees first. his parents, guardians.The effort that is put into them will show later on.We are blessed to have them. All of us .Even those that have passed on, that left behind great memories, made it all worth it for us to pass it on. :)
So , Goodnight Truth. It's always a pleasure to speak to you. Have a wonderful ,peaceful night and TTYL. :)
Thanks for the convo.

Me: Thank you Sweetheart for your words about my parents again. My parents been through a lot, but their love is as strong as ever.
Technology can be used for good and evil. So, we should have balance in our lives as a means to handle our daily affairs and to take time to appreciate love, to appreciate our families, etc. We should be patient with love since sometimes love is not grown automatically. Some relationships will grow slowly. You made a great point of living in the world, but being of it since much of the world is filled with corruption, etc. We are constantly learning. Getting advice from others is one great means to navigate in this 21st century society. The harm and exploitation of people is abhorrent. We should expose evil folks of course. Yet, we should be compassionate toward decent human beings. We should not throw away folks like tissue. We should build a Brother or a Sister that legitimately needs assistance. The rest of your points are excellent like usual, Dear Heart. So, Dear Heart, a Brother is about to get some Sleep.
So, Sister Enjoy your Day.
Have a Blessed Weekend and you can check out my new messages to you from Bp.
Every single word you have mentioned above is accurate. :)


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TTNYCRN says:
Hey TrojanPam, not to break your communication with the commenter Larissa but as a health professional, this blew my mind. White supremacy will literally send black folks to their graves!
“In terms of how this wicked policy of depopulation has affected Africa and the Third World: During my last visit to Zimbabwe, in southeastern Africa, we learned how the AIDS pandemic was killing 5,000 Zimbabweans a week—20,000 a month. And the biggest industry at the time in the capital city of Harare was the making of coffins … And although it was the Blacks who were dying of AIDS, I asked about the White population—were they dying of AIDS; and the answer was, “No, they were not.” I went to a luncheon sponsored by the Zimbabwean Department of Health, and a wonderful female doctor who was the Minister of Health was so proud to announce that every child in Zimbabwe was vaccinated with vaccines that had come from America and Europe.
I grieved over the widespread death due to the poisons, not “un”-intentionally put in vaccines, but intentionally put in vaccines to limit the population of Black people in those countries and places in the world where America’s needs for their vital minerals and resources were deemed necessary—in her mind—for her national interests; to keep America in the world as the “No. 1 superpower.”
Killing off tens of hundreds of thousands of people in Third World nations, because those nations trust the scholars and scientists of the Western world, White people, who claim to want to “help” them. While there are many White people who are sincere, they are the “fronts” that are used to open the door for the insincere Satanic Mind to enter, to practice evil under a claimed “noble motive.”
http://www.finalcall.com/artman/publish/Minister_Louis_Farrakhan_9/article_100799.shtml


TrojanPam says:
@ TTNYCRN
Right, it has sent billions to their graves and before it’s wiped off the planet will send billions more.
Re Zimbabweans, I believe there is a DIRECT LINK between vaccines and these so-called “sexual” diseases (that are NOT sexually transmitted)
Non-white people MUST WAKE UP and stop being naive about their enemies. It doesn’t matter how many whites are “sincere” — we have NO WAY of telling them apart. Nor do I believe that “many” are sincere, in fact, I’ve found the OPPOSITE to be true. And what appears to be “sincere” is USUALLY winds up killing us or impoverishing us or deceiving us
Black people MUST let go of this notion of “good white people” because we are too easily fooled by the outside appearances of things, like the African Aid concerts that are just FRONTS for white supremacy.
Where is the evidence of all these good white people?
Why after all the years of “integration” are black people falling to the bottom again, regardless of education? How can murders of children like Trayvon Martin go unpunished? How can black people still be slaughtered in the street by policemen who go unpunished? Why are black people still filling up the prisons? Why do we have the HIGHEST unemployment rate in America, even higher than illegal immigrants, regardless of our education and experience
YET there are allegedly so many “good white people” around?
As long as we stay in that comfort zone of thinking some of our white mommies and daddies “love us” we will stay an undeveloped and retarded and child like population
sorry to be so blunt but I believe it’s true


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TrojanPam says:
@ larissa
I’m so sorry to hear that! Is your dad’s partner a black woman or…?
Your tragic story reminds me of a young black female I know whose ex-boyfriend (a black male) broke into her house, where she lived with her parents, and tried to choke her to death. The father and mother woke up and he ran off. When she filed charges against him, her father refused to testify, saying he didn’t want to lock the young man up and stop him from being a father (?!?)
I could tell more stories about the blase attitude of the black community toward the physical and sexual abuse of black females and the pressure on black females to remain silent and just “suck it up” but that would take too long.
The only way I can explain it is I believe this ‘attitude’ is a carry-over from 400 years of chattel slavery, where rape was an everyday occurrence for black people, in particular, black females.
To survive emotionally, slaves had to numb themselves to the PAIN of other slaves. Male slaves were unable to protect female slaves, their children, or themselves and had to learn to live with their women being defiled and degraded –and in some cases would blame the black female for being a rape victim of the white male aka “the red dress” syndrome, where black females were suspected of being WILLFUL sexual toys of the white slave-owner — as though a slave HAD A CHOICE in whether they would be raped or not (!)
the second part of this POST TRAUMATIC SLAVERY SYNDROME is anti-blackness, where blacks learned over hundreds of years to be ANTI-BLACK, and you can see that attitude today, where black people often blame or ridicule other blacks for being poor, or mistreated, or sexually abused.
And due to TV AND MOVIE PROGRAMMING, many blacks believe that empathy and sympathy for sexual crimes should be reserved for the WHITE FEMALE — since HER FACE is the only face they see as “VICTIM” — and I write about this in my first book, Trojan Horse: Death of a Dark Nation, in a chapter called, “The Dead White Woman’s Club” — where the public is FORCED-FED an endless stream of young white female victims, like Lacey Peterson, Jon Benet Ramsey, etc. as though white females are the ONLY ONES worthy of being victims.
Unfortunately, black people have absorbed this fraudulent image, so when it comes to black females, it feels abnormal to see us in the same light. In fact, we are expected to NOT FEEL ANY PAIN and to keep on truckin’ — no matter what damage is done to us.
That’s why I reject the stereotype of the “black superwoman” because what that does is make us into NON-BEINGS that do not need or deserve any help or compassion.
I tell you this to say, whatever happened was NOT your fault. Period. Regardless of how callous or ignorant or insensitive some people may be towards you. I hope you will seek help or counseling if you feel you need it. Again, I’m sorry to hear that this happened to you. Take care


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Your post is SO laughable and absurd I can hardly respond!!! IF the percentages of "good" whites were on the level you indicated, WHY did it take so long to OFFICIALLY end slavery??? Where were the "good" whites when the racist started the voter ID crap(Intended to reduce Black voters, and ONLY AFTER President Obama's election)? I don't see these "good" whites addressing Stop and Frisk DESPITE evidence that MORE whites are found with weapons and drugs. I didn't see the MAJORITY "good" whites demanding justice for an innocent teen MURDERED while walking home. No "good" whites demanding an end to police brutality of Blacks. Where were the "good" whites when Bush sent your son's and daughter's off to die over a LIE??? Were YOU the only "good" white who KNEW it was a LIE??? President Obama is a socialist/communist for suggesting the government aid it's citizens in need? I thought that was a "good" christian deed. But YOU have NO voice when your wealthy brothers use the government's money to further enrich themselves. How many WHITE companies made millions/billions off the Iraq war??? Where was the voice of the "good" whites? In fact, by YOUR own acknowledgement, Blacks would be WORSE off without the "good" whites. Sounds like you are admitting a "system" of white supremacy, racism, and discrimination exist. Poor Southern whites vote against their self interests BECAUSE your wealthy brothern has given then a sense of "superiority" over Blacks and people of COLOR instead of money to feed their families.

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Of course YOU want to have the last word on this subject. NOT!!!

1). You are right that slavery was the social norm during that era as racism against Black is the social norm for whites in this era. Blacks of that time addressed racism and were called race baiters and worse, just like they are now. Whites like YOU want to PRETEND that slavery, white supremacy, and racism came to a complete STOP upon signing of the Emancipation Proclamation. NOT!!! Whites like YOU are satisfied with the "claim" of OFFICIALLY ending racism WHILE agreeing to the PRACTICE of racism/discrimination. The practice of racism/discrimination CONTINUES because the ROOT cause, white supremacy, has NEVER been eradicated. Until YOU address the ROOT causes of racism/discrimination it HAS to continue. Whites don't want to address THAT issue BECAUSE it would erase your social advantages.

2). Here is ANOTHER example of you attempting to deceive. Ilegal immigration is NOT new. It was around LONG before President Obama came to office. Whites themselves have concluded that cases of voter fruad is NILL. I beleive there has been ONLY 1 or 2 claims of voter fruad ACROSS the entire country. As to voter ID being a conspiracy against Blacks, I will let the several RECORED conversations of "white" conservatives speak for itself. The INTENT of this law and gerrymandering is to LESSEN Black political influence in elections. This IS a CONTINUATION of white supremacist ideologies that ONLY whites should vote.

3). Stop and Frisk dosen't have to be in your city to add your voice. Most truely MORAL people are NOT hindered by such factors.
The law/Justice is NOT based on proportions(That's the NEW "game" of supremacists), EXCEPT when it comes to Blacks and people of COLOR. It is KNOWN that whites have MORE guns and drugs, so WHY are they the LAST to be stopped by police??? You KNOW why. Like #1 it IS the social norm of white supremacists to "target" Blacks.

4). Again, you are giving white supremacist logic. You have NOTHING to back up your claims EXCEPT Zimmerman's WORD of events. And his WORD alone is enough as it fits YOUR supremacist ideology. EVERY word put forth by Zimmerman, from spotting Trayvon, to exiting his vehicle, to following and shooting him would be REJECTED on it's face if a Black had killed a white teen walking home from the store. Supremacist Creatures like YOU are SO mentally ill that you CHANGED decades of advice given to kids DAILY when leaving home. Be suspecious of "strangers following you", "Run, yell, fight if a stranger touches you", etc. But according to YOUR supremacist logic, those rules DON'T apply to Black youth. Black youth are to STOP and OBEY the "stranger", especailly if he is white. I hope you are being fair and telling that to YOUR kids. Let them know that the "stranger rule" no longer applies. Again, give me independant FACTS, not Zimmerman's WORD of events.

5). Point me to WHERE whites are addressing police brutality against Blacks or people of COLOR!!!

6). If people were INDEED mad about Iraq, the war wouldn't have occured in the first place. Everybody with common sense KNEW Bush and his war hungry administration was LYING. But the lie was easy to let pass as Iraq is full of COLORED people.

7). See you are spouting white supremacist talking points. I agree that SOME people, especailly whites, are NOT in NEED of government assistance of ANY kind. What is needed is to locate those NOT in NEED and remove them from the dole. Proclaiming there is NO need at ALL is disingenuious at best. I disagree with your definition of socialism/communism. Helping the elderly, children, and the poor is NOT socialism/communism. As a citizen of this country, I believe the government SHOULD assist those in NEED. Especailly when the economy is down due to NO fault of the people. From a religious point of view, there IS an obligation to help the poor. When you can SHOW me PROOF of able bodied people not want to work(If work is available)I might agree with you. But blanket supremacist statements about "lazy Blacks" won't cut it with me(Yes, that's what YOU really mean).

8). Denial of white supremacy and white supremacist "systems" is the BIGGEST lie supremacists have. There is NO mysterious "boggyman" concerned about cultural/ethnic "differences". Whites supremacist "systems" were created as a means for white CONTROL of COLORED people, especailly Blacks. The ONLY issue with diverse cultures/ethics is white NEED for their culture to be SUPERIOR to OTHERS. NOT!!!

9). Stop playing. Southern whites have voted against their own economic interests for a long time. They economic interests PALES incomparison to their false "FEELING" of superiority. That's the ONLY thing their wealthy brothern gave them in exchange for USING them for their financial gain. During slavery, not ALL whites owned slaves. That was reserved for the wealthy. So, what were they DOING during that time period??? They were working for their wealthy brothers and living a 1/2 step above the slave. But then as NOW, they had their false FEELINGS of superiority.
Finally, YOU can't CONTROL what I say or how I CHOOSE to reply to your post. Talk about white supremacy!!! Where did I insult YOUR genetics??? I gave you TRUTH about your genetics, not an insult as you CAN'T help YOUR condition. It is obvious we will NEVER agree as I REFUSE to be deceived by supremacist "game". I know you are use to CONVIENCING "silly" COLORED people into BELEIVING a LIE, NOT me!!!

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Malcolm told us about our psychological NEED to IDENTIFY and PROTECT whites. Like most victims of evil, we HOPE our LOVE towards them will make them see us differently. Most of us SEE this behavior EVERYDAY in one form or another. Recently, I observed a well dressed Black man scold a homeless Black man only to walk a little further and give money to a homeless white. But what SHOOK me to the CORE was the LOOK in the eyes of the homeless Black man who witnessed his "brother" assisting the white. In ALL aspects, from the boardroom to the bedroom, Blacks have a NEED to make white LIKE them.
-Edud

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So true!!...Many Blacks are truly OUT OF ORDER!
My Grand pops told me about the speech in which Malcolm X spoke on a slave 'saving suh massah burning house'.The house was on fire and the slave skin was melting off but he was still standing there talking about "suh all that matter is that you safe"...


-Symone

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The DIFFERENCE between white and Black supremacy is white supremacy is BASED on FALSE ideology. If mankind originated in Africia FROM Black people, as YOUR scientists HAD to AGREE, it stands to reason they are genetically SUPERIOR. If 90% of the WORLD is COLORED and YOU are NOT, it stands to reason that COLOR DOMINATES NON-colored. Despite these FACTS, there is NO recorded history of Blacks attempting to subjugate, hate, or dispise whites. Today, Blacks have LITTLE interest in aiding YOUR demise. But your FEAR is, if left unchecked, Blacks would NATURALLY take over and rule whites. Thus, you CREATED "systems" to impede Black progress. The "lazy" Black "game" IS just that, GAME!!! During the slave era when Blacks were working from sun up to sun down building this country and enriching YOUR wealthy brothern, whites STILL proclaimed Blacks as being lazy. A REVERSE psychological "game" to get them to work even harder to enrich your kind. The SAME is TRUE today. Your wealthy brothern want to make millions/billions in profits and bonuses off the backs of the poor while paying them minimum wage. In fact there was a story the other day inwhich it was revealed that the INTENT of the Koch brothers(and other top 1%)was NOT to keep wages low(regulated), but to do away with ALL minimum wage laws.

Let them pay what they WANT to pay, if anything at all. We are witnessing the RESTRUCTURING of society right NOW(Cuts in food stamps, high unemployment, etc). And your hatred of Blacks is so DEEP your wealthy brothern has YOU voting against YOUR own economic interests. By the way, you DO know that not ALL whites owned slaves. That was ONLY for the wealthy. So, WHAT were poor whites like YOU doing during that time???? I can tell you. You were living a 1/2 step above those you hate. Farming, share cropping, and paying your dues to your rich brother. And in exchange for USING you, they gave you a FALSE sense of superiority over Blacks. That's ALL!!! Now, whites can't abide the FACT that they are being USED by their rich brothers, so as usual, you MUST blame Blacks for YOUR condition. Even AFTER your rich brother, Gov. Romney, TOLD you what the rich think of YOU, you STILL have a mental NEED to blame Blacks. But BECAUSE of your genetic condition and impending demise, you MUST stick "together" regardless. I KNOW YOU despise the TRUTH I reveal about YOU TRANSLUCENT creatures, and I LOVE it!!!

-Edud

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BroShabbaz804: Brother Truth.... There is a reason why GOD made the DEVIL. It is part of the devils job to move among our people. If you recall the story of JOB. The devil was among them when they came before GOD. Satan knows how to make evil apear to be fair seeming my brother.

Me: Brother, it is good that we will never throw our people under the bus. At first, I did not want to respond, but the more times I read the words, the more inspired I felt to set the record straight about Black Love.

BroShabbaz804: Indeed my brother. Indeed. I applaud you for taking your time to make the truth plain. We all have our positions to play in this movement. And you play yours very well.

Me: Thank you Brother.


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Erica: Thank you Truth. You know that we respect you. That needy, clueless Irish wasn't even worth my time to put her in her place which is where she doesn't seem to realize she belongs. And I had Clarke BANNED from this site. Hey, Court. Haven't spoken to u in a while. :)

Courtney: Hello EJ. :) So here they come with a different Tactic.smh. Such a shame really. They want to bait to get people thrown off. I seee you lmaooooo. ( to them) I really dont like people who are weak and cant stand on their own to let others be because they cant measure up... Whats up with you dear? Yes Truth was laying down the real knowledge again.. This ones tactic is to purposely mention us without naming to get us to go off or something. ? Bait into something.?Again, the one she is defending is guilty of starting the harrassment and if she is a woman, she should of been offended as well. That goes to show you some things huh? Anyway. were is Mirah and Dande?

Erica: Hey, Court. I haven't seen Dande on here in a min. I text Mirah a little while ago. Hope your evening is going great and I'm doing just fine. :)

Courtney: I know. I haven't either. Hope all is well with her. I'm good. Happy to hear everything is ok with you and yours. :)

Erica: Why thank u Courtney

Courtney: You are welcome. I'm going to bed so goodnight to you and Truthseeker.
TTYL :)

Me: I am doing Great Sister Erica.
I first read her comments in the morning. I had to work, so I did not have enough time to write a response. I wrote a response after work. I know you respect me and I respect you a great deal Homegirl and Sweetpeach. :) Court is here. Clarke is banned. Well, that is karma. I told you yesterday that karma is coming for him. :)
Bless you Erica and have a Wonderful Day. It is cold as an iceberg where I am from. LOL.

Erica: Lol. Here where I am it is still like spring. You responded to her very well and I'm glad to know you are doing well. Keep keeping on, Truth.

Me: You too Sister Erica.

By Timothy

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Friday, October 25, 2013

Tuesday, October 15, 2013

Real Strong Truths

http://racismws.com/2013/10/13/after-the-trayvon-martin-verdict-what-can-black-people-do-part-five/


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Shanequa says:
While racism is being hit in front of our black faces, we have a great number of black men & women that are in denial that racism still exist. We have came to a point now instead of us pointing our fingers at the root cause of our condition which is white supremacy, we will point the finger at our own black brothers & sisters. We as black people need to stop running to the rescue to save these other races when they wouldn’t dare come to our rescue. I rarely watch television but that is a tool for manipulating and sending our people the wrong messages. Sometimes I’m even glad when they don’t have black characters on television because it is always a degrading or submission role they will play.

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TrojanPam says:
@ Shanequa
I agree, that’s why there is so little cooperation (and participation) when it comes to our own (black) liberation.
I am also relieved when I don’t see any blacks in TV and movie roles because if we are present, black males will be separated from black females — or in conflict, and the one or two black faces present will be in service to white people and white supremacy by playing either a degrading role OR that of a “color-blind” black person who is totally accepted by whites

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Shanequa says:
@ TrojanPam 100% agreed with your statement.
I know when that interracial Cheerio commercial came out with the white woman, black man and biracial child, black women got a lot of negative backlash from black men. The media made it a big up roar but to me it was another divide & conquer scam toward black men & women. I seen black forums & youtube videos of black men complaining on how racist white men & angry black women were upset by the commercial of seeing a loving interracial family. But again that interracial family image sends a negative message to our people saying its good to love non- black but bad to love your own black people. I notice this to on television when it involves a black family they will always have two dark skin parents & biracial children but never two dark skin parents & dark children.
The same thing when it comes to natural hair products rather the woman is biracial, light or dark skin they will always try to find the one with “good good hair” curly or wavy hair (in black people term) to advertise there product you want find a black woman with kinky or tightly coil hair . Even on youtube you have natural hair black women trying to define there curls which in my opinion trying to manipulate there hair into a curly or wavy pattern but if you wasn’t born with that hair pattern its not going to work. Then its a hair chart of the varies types of hair texture that I seen some black women go by to find their hair texture type. But in my opinion that hair chart you can’t really go by because we as black people have too many different types of hair pattern & textures they doesn’t match to that chart.
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TrojanPam says:
@ Shanequa
I’ve noticed the same things, how dark skinned black children and females have DISAPPEARED from TV commercials and how over 95% of the “black” children are the offspring of white females with black males. (according to someone I knew who worked with casting directors — MOST OF THEM WHITE FEMALES)
no accident
And how natural hair products hardly exist BECAUSE THEY DO NOT PROMOTE WHITE BEAUTY STANDARDS
and how most of the top black female entertainers have lightened their skin and their hair and wear UNREALISTIC looking hair weaves — because that’s what black females have to do TO SECURE WORK IN A RACIST ENTERTAINMENT INDUSTRY
and how black males who DO NOT DATE OR MARRY BLACK FEMALES — get MORE WORK AND MORE TV SHOWS AND MOVIES than black men who DO
Once we start to REALLY SEE what we are looking at, we will recognize it as WHITE SUPREMACY PROPAGANDA — and will be able to build PSYCHOLOGICAL DEFENSES against it.
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sondis says:
Powerful…posted on abagond’s blog.

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TrojanPam says:
@ sondis
Thanks
there is so much anti-blackness being generated by mass media that it is endangering our survival in this nation.
I compare it to a husband and wife who are trapped in a burning house set on fire by a mob
and instead of trying to put the fire out OR get their small children to safety,
the husband and wife are fighting each other over why he or she came home at three in the morning the night before
Yes, that might be a conversation that needs to happen (why one partner came home late) but NOT RIGHT NOW
NOT while their house is on fire and their children are dying of SMOKE INHALATION and BURNS
We –black males and female — better WAKE UP TO THE FACT THAT OUR HOUSES ARE BEING SET ON FIRE
and OUR CHILDREN ARE DYING
so whatever BEEF black males and females and black males and black males and black females and black females have with each other
has got to be either TABLED OR SQUASHED
UNTIL WE PUT THE FIRES OUT
(that’s what I’m saying)
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TrojanPam says:
@ Timothy
Thanks for supporting this blog with your input.
I agree, we must do our best to respect each other as black and African people, no matter where we are in the world. We are ALL under attack–and we need to see that as EVIDENCE that the rest of the world knows how potentially powerful MELANATED PEOPLE ARE — and that we have the SPIRITUAL POWER TO TRANSFORM THE PLANET and ERADICATE WHITE SUPREMACY.
That’s why we are being attacked. If we were so “inferior” and worthless why bother oppressing us? You don’t have to make inferior something that already is. It doesn’t make sense.
And the one thing I know for sure, like the air I breathe, is that when we disrespect other black people, that DISRESPECT REDUCES OUR OWN SELF-RESPECT.
Have you ever noticed that some of the most anti-black black people, who are always putting down black people, are some of the angriest and miserable people you know?
Like the young black females on these reality shows, calling each other the most horrible names, like “rachet h_ b____h” and if you look at them and their lives, they are CHOKING ON THEIR OWN POISON, and are usually involved in very dysfunctional sexual relationships
and they can’t put it together, that by dogging out and degrading other black females there is NO WAY THEY CAN FEEL GOOD ABOUT THEMSELVES, no matter how much hair and makeup and high heels and BIG TALK they use
and that is the TRICK of white supremacy. They get US to do THEIR dirty work and stand back and watch us SELF-DESTRUCT
we have to be smarter

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ProBlack says:
Thank You Pam, for this post.
I had read about the murder of Kendrick on another website. I was deeply disturbed to say the least. These atrocities keep happening. At times I wish I had a magic wand…at others, I am consumed with hate, and wishing the perpetrators dead! But, I come back to my senses and get
down to work (homeschooling my son, buying black, etc…). The determination and persistence that I have been blessed with, keeps me going. On the other hand, I am inpatient and want to see immediate results, a better position for our people etc…. However, I keep telling myself if it was up to THEM, we would have been exterminated long ago. So, the only fight is the good fight, and I am not in it to LOSE!
Once Again, Thanks for all you do!!!


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TrojanPam says:
@ ProBlack
I think you have to be a robot NOT to feel anger and even a degree of intense dislike when you see what is happening to other black people JUST because they are black.
It’s the black people who don’t feel anything, who aren’t angry or outraged, or who walk around talking about being color-blind, that have the REAL problem
A moral person is always OUTRAGED by cruelty and injustice
anyone who isn’t — in my opinion — has lost their moral compass, or never had one to begin with
Thanks to you for supporting this blog!
Please share the info with others
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anonymous says:
Ms. Pam, I have a couple of questions? In your opinion why is it that lately I have noticed a lot of attacks on Black women, like White people going out of their way to denigrate Black females, and lastly, why do a number of them seem to get scared when Black people wear their hair in it’s natural state?
I am posting a link here where I was reading about the ill treatment a young lady has gotten from individuals while living in Taiwan. I am struck by how many White males who are living there are participating in the dynamic. I see this behavior as increasing. They seem to really be uncomfortable when we wear our hair in it’s natural state, and I see an increase in ill mannered behavior toward Black women. Why do Black women scare them so much? Thank you in advance for your answers.
http://blasiannarrative.blogspot.com/2013/10/yes-im-american-too.html
http://www.slate.com/blogs/xx_factor/2013/10/14/danielle_lee_called_an_urban_whore_how_scientific_american_bungled_the_racist.html?wpisrc=burger_bar
And of course LAPD, where they treat you like a King.
http://www.independent.co.uk/news/world/americas/racist-la-police-dogs-only-bite-latinos-and-africanamericans-8874913.html


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TrojanPam says:
@ anonymous
Absolutely! I expected some of this when I read — about ten years ago — a study on the self-esteem of teenaged girls.
According to the WHITE PEOPLE who conducted this study black girls had the HIGHEST SELF-ESTEEM when compared to white, Asian and Hispanic girls.
I was like — uh-oh! They’re coming after us now, they can’t let that fly, after all the demonization and denigration of black females over the last 500 years, how DARE us have higher self-esteem than white females!
And then I started noticing more degrading images of black females in the media, the black males wearing wigs and dresses to look like ugly black females, and promoting attractive black females as “video h_____” and today, most attractive black females in TV and movies are chasing and begging white males for sex (AKA being white men’s W_____S).
And now that black females are doing a reverse, and getting away from degrading OURSELVES, the harassment and degradation aimed at black females who choose to wear our natural hair is DESIGNED to further confuse us and devastate our attempts to restore our self-esteem and dignity.
As long as we wear unrealistic, unflattering weaves and wigs and perm our hair and straighten, the white supremacists can relax.
But once we embrace the bodies and hair and skin THAT GOD GAVE US, then who knows what might happen next? We might start really loving and respecting ourselves and not buying into the notion that whites are superior.
And once black males SEE us LOVING OURSELVES, they might find the COURAGE AND CONVICTION TO LOVE THEMSELVES — and US
and before you know it, black people are liking and loving themselves and each other and our children are rising up out of the psychological and emotional and sexual cesspool of white supremacy and becoming OVER-DEVELOPED HUMAN BEINGS instead of UNDER-DEVELOPED, SELF-HATING CRIPPLES.
The most POWERFUL weapon white supremacy has is to get THEIR VICTIMS TO DO THE WORK ON THEMSELVES BY HATING THEMSELVES AND LOVING AND WANTING TO BE WHITE AND BE LOVED BY WHITE PEOPLE.
Because once a people falls to that lowest of levels where they hate themselves and love their enemies, they have become the WALKING DEAD
That’s why almost EVERY black female in entertainment is wearing a weave, and more are wearing blond weaves and MOST of these weaves LOOK LIKE WEAVES and are very unflattering. I suspect they are told they have to wear them if they want to get work in the industry.
I also believe a lot of white males who degrade black females’ bodies and hair ARE CLOSET HOMOSEXUALS — AND view us MUCH in the way a FEMALE VIEWS HER FEMALE COMPETITORS because what NORMAL HETEROSEXUAL MALE spends any amount of time talking about women he is NOT attracted to?
NONE.
And why are Black males being REWARDED for being homosexual and for shunning black females as lovers and wives?
I believe it is happening for three main reasons:
1. black males embracing black females could lead to BLACK UNITY
2. black males embracing black females means MORE BLACK BABIES
3. black males embracing black females (or any females) means FEWER black males that are SEXUALLY AVAILABLE to the racist homosexual and down-low white males.
It is obvious there is some kind of fixation on black male genitals by white males collectively, and I think some view black females as OBSTACLES in their quest to control and covet the black male’s penis and his awesome reproductive and sexual powers — while at the same time, whites males’ sperm is increasingly NON-VIABLE (UNABLE TO FERTILIZE AN EGG)
I would warn black females collectively to be aware of all the above, and to NOT INTERNALIZE anything anyone says about us. They are afraid of us FOR GOOD REASON.
I would also warn black males NOT TO JUMP ON THE BAND WAGON of bashing black females. Like the KING on the chessboard, once the QUEEN is removed from the GAME,
it’s CHECKMATE FOR THE KING
Black brothers, do not become APPEASERS, hoping the white alligators will eat you last (and eat the black females first).
Do not throw your women and children to the alligators but join with them to defeat your enemies.
I don’t want to make this post any longer. I talk about this phenomenon in my fourth book, “The Beauty Con Game” — and about the homosexual connection between white males bashing black females and secretly desiring black males in my third book, “The Interracial Con Game.”
I’ve made both books available in print and ebook so they will be affordable.

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anonymous says:
Thank you Ms. Pam for taking the time to respond to my question. I read another post on the same website where the young lady would overhear Chinese women asking their mates if they thought she was pretty, to which they replied they did not. I have to wonder about any woman who would have to resort to that type of behavior. They must feel terribly challenged by her presence, and insecure about themselves. I will try to remember what you have said, and I hope to one day be able to read the books you have written.

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TrojanPam says:
@ anonymous
I have personally experienced a great deal of hostility and insecurity from both non-black/non-white females and white females because of the way I look.
It’s hard to describe, but there is something SPECIAL about black females that we may not see BUT they do
Black females have a strong presence that has nothing to do with being masculine or “superwomen” (because we’re NOT)
but I think it’s an invisible force, something spiritual and a lot of non-white cultures have worshiped black females as the MADONNA, a diety, but only through the lens of white supremacy is the black female deemed inferior
If I could accomplish nothing else before I’m buried six feet under, I would want to convince black people that WE ARE NOT INFERIOR
if we were, there wouldn’t be this HUGE EFFORT to oppress us
because it wouldn’t be NECESSARY





Tuesday, October 8, 2013

Great, Positive Words















http://listosaur.com/history/10-overlooked-african-american-heroes.html

http://www.pbs.org/wgbh/amex/reconstruction/plantation/sf_myths.html

http://www.topix.com/forum/afam/TB0LQ4NM9CP3T25HP/p5#c103


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Me: Hello Sista Courtney. :)

Courtney: Hello Truthseeker :)

Me: How are you Doing today Courtney?
:)

Courtney: Im good truth. What about you Sir?

Me: I am doing Great Sister.
It has been raining here all day and now all night. LOL.
It is breezy too. Typically fall weather.

Courtney: Good :) Rain is ok some times. Its great when you want to play board games I guess. :)Breezy, I love.

Me: LOL.
We have below average rain totals, so this is beneficial. Fall and breezy winds go hand in hand. The fall weather allows me to evaluate my life and it causes me to be reflective. Board games are great at any age. It is perfect weather to think about life, read, or watch a movie.

Courtney: Well, thats one thing if you guys need it. I noticed down here ,when it rains, the roads flood.As far as board games, I will play the heck out of some connect four and don't even mention uno.lol, Scrabble is ok and monopoly. Im trying to buy up all the property :) reading ,thinking about life , movies are fun things to do as well..History is something I know you like to read but what other genres do you like reading?

Me: LOL.
You are sweet and Lovely. :)
Yes, in the South, many places flood easily. Roads flood easier down here in many locations. We are so close to sea level, which is why it floods in some places. Connect Four is great including scrabble and monopoly. My mother loves scrabble. What other genres do I like reading? I like reading about politics, the mysteries of life (like things that deals with Secret societies, etc.), books on intrigue, and I like to read about the consciousness of our people (i.e. black culture). My mother loves to read fiction including non fiction books.

Courtney: I'm seeing that along with other things. :) I went to the grocery store last night and saw what I thought was a fox or something. Just chilling, walking across the road. Something ran across my neighbors yard the other night, as I was pulling in. I bet you it was a fox or something.I have to keep my eye out for things that im not use too. smh. Ok. Secret societies sound intriguing.of course, history,biographies,fiction, literature,, non fiction too. :)Your mom is a good woman. :)

Me: A fox.
Well, that is interesting. Where I am from, there is a group of geese in certain areas and some of them cross the street. Thank you about your comments about my mother. :) She is a people person. She loves to talk and she talks with a Southern accent.. She is in her early 60's looking like her early 50's. I have her humanitarian, sensitive side. My more competitive side (and political side) comes from my father. So, I can be sensitive (like with you Sweetheart since you are great Woman. :) and I can be more relentless in fighting for justice. Also, your family is great as well.

Courtney: I think thats what it was. I dont know. It was dark but it didn't look like a dog.Aww, I love to see ducks and geese crossing the road. They are so cute and waddle. lol I think baby ducks are good pets. lol. Bless your mother for being in her 60s and looking youthful. :)Your dad is competitive and mom is more sensitive.:) I understand. Its the same with mine but my mother ,especially younger, had a competitive side to her that worked well with dad. :) I think it had something with her being 5'2. lol my mom drove stick when we were kids.smh

Me: Baby ducks are so Sweet. Bless your family too. Learning about your family and you learning about mine shows what it is all about.
Life is about Love, sharing experiences, and doing the right thing. Thank you for your continued praise of my mother. I guess our parents are very similar to each other. That is why our thinking on issues mirror each other on so many subjects. Mothers and Fathers are always great. Your Father was a real man and your mother is a great woman living today. When I am getting older, I appreciate what is most important in life and I am becoming more mature. You are the one that has contributed a great amount in causing me to be more mature in my life. So, you are a Blessing to so many folks. :) Now, I feel so much of the love of God in my heart when communicating with you. I feel peace and great understanding.

Courtney: I'm considering getting one at some point. They are adorable.:).I'e had a few things in my lifetime so duck does not sound far off. lmaoYeah, they do kind of mirror each other.I think we like so many other black men and women on here and in the world, have great parents as BLACK people.Regardless of what the bigots would like the world to believe. They are so misguided, so stuck on stupid and ,so misinformed. Its tragic to be that ignorant. Anyway,Thank you for the compliment but I think your maturity is all your parents doing :) I think Im mature were it counts but I can certainly not take myself to seriously.:) Its great to come across people who want to understand.,who try to understand, with peace and respect, being at the center.

Me: Yes, my parents taught me a lot about respect, humanity, and strength. They influenced my maturity greatly. Peace that surpasses understanding is a great thing. The bigots are ignorant since they view life in such monolithic, narrowminded terms. They are just wrong since they fail to see the dynamic, intellectually strong, and diverse attributes of the black community. Mutual respect and the advocacy of liberation are great themes to live by. We are right to disagree with injustice and have great love for our families. We are right to believe in our hearts Black Love and Human Justice. We love Africa with all of our hearts as the Motherland. Well, real folks are all over this Newsone forum from you, Soultry Soul, msjames120, Brother Jazz, Mirah, Anthony Ellis,the Homegirl Erica, Evette, KJ, Dandelion, BroShabazz, the Burning Bush, and so many other Brothers and Sisters. We all love you Sis. You know how I feel about you. It is not a secret. Like always, I love you.
So, Goodnight to you, Sister Courtney. :)
TTYL.
One Love
Blessings to you.
:)

Courtney: Yes they did. :) Thank you for the convo.:) Wishing you a good night, along with Sister Soultry,Ej 318,Dande, Broshabbazz,jazz,,msjames120, and everyone else who I forgot.:)
TTYL Truthseeker and as always, thank you so much. Goodnight :)
P.s Friday is almost here. :)

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Me: Jay Z made many interesting points. Many of his words are accurate, but racism is still in epidemic levels in the States. You can just look at the criminal justice system and various unjust laws on books now to witness that. A lot of his words reflect the differences between the younger and older generations. The following is what I have been wanting to write for a long time. The younger generation seeks transformative human expression & unique creativity, which is fine. Yet, sometimes, some of them glamorize vulgarity and some of them view that form of expression as being equated to enlightening commentary on society. I disagree with that view. The older generation wants stability and social continuity. That is fine, but some of them must realize that even the younger generation has a lot of value and the youth's spirit for justice and social change is not inferior to the older generation's spirit for the same aims. In other words, the younger generation's unique style and strength should never be downplayed or devalued by the older generation. Therefore, the younger and older generation (who have massive similarities) should work together on common cause to build up our communities and execute solutions. I do not agree with many of Jay Z's lyrics that in my mind degrades his own people including women. Yet, we should also have a dialogue among our people and we should fight for economic justice, social justice, and real revolutionary changes in the world in favor of the interests of our people. That is the fundamental point.

Courtney:
YOu said--In other words, the younger generation's unique style and strength should never be downplayed or devalued by the older generation.
So true,in all actuality, we need them but they need us too. We just have to show them how to redirect that energy as well as helping them to close the generational gap that exists between the two. We need their strength, creativity , lively spirit like they need our experiences and wisdom to help create real unity and real solutions to problems that exist.Another great post . :)


Me: Thanks Sis Courtney. I have been thinking about this issue for a while. There has been news about it and debates here about it. Also, your words are correct as well. We should bridge this generation gap and our energies are important to harness in the positive direction. The older generation's experience and long lessons and the youth's creative spirit and huge strength merged together is a great combination as you say. Balance and social Unity are great parts of our cultural ethos. So, you always bring that fire of wisdom too. I do greatly respect you, love your insight, and certainly it is great to see Brothers and Sisters coming together for a common cause. I am 29 (I am approaching my physical prime. When we approach our physical prime, our spiritual development grows exponentially if we do the right thing), so I know both angles. I know what older folks say and what younger folks say also. Once again, bless you, Lovely and Insightful Sister :)

Courtney: Thanks Truth. Your insight is much appreciated. So much strength and truth coming from people on this site despite all the other nonsense. At 29, you are already ahead of the game with your mindset. :) Wait until you hit your 30's. The age of being your best you physically,as well as seeking more wisdom, strength, more spirituality. Knowing both angles leads to more understanding about life. Bless you too. :)



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Courtney: you are right. They keep proving us right, by their actions actually.They sure like to study the best. don't they?They LOVE to steal and take from others. Nothing original about them.RAcist trolls.They are missing that one key ingredient. Spirit.They don't have it and will never have it. This is why . we stay winning.They think winning ,is worshipping money. So sad.

Me:Indeed.
At the end of the day, it is human character, love, truth, and human liberation that is superior to their agendas of bigotry, extreme materialism, militarism, and hostile unnecessary divisions in the world. They or the racists target the Best since they are jealous and angry at the fact of a strong conscious movement that refuses to submit to their reactionary aims. Human life and Black Love are sacrosanct and we have every right to harbor compassion, inspiring deeds, and positive actions. You are right about spirit. The spirit of LOVE and wisdom causes us to win. We win because we never give up. We win because our souls are tied to righteousness and we win because we never forget the legacy of our glorious ancestors (who paved the way for us in this new century). So, Thank you Sista for your words. :)

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Me: Good afternoon to you Sister Courtney. :)
How are you doing today?

Courtney: Hello Truthseeker :) I'm good. How about you?I'm home now. Can't wait for monday night football. The jets are playing Atlanta. :) Go Jets!!!!

Me: Yes, I know how you love the Jets. :)
I am glad that you are good Sis. :) I am chilling too Sweetheart.
Yes, I will be switching channels between MNF and the Celebrity Crime Files show on TVOne. I love many shows on TVONE like A Different World, Unsung (with its new season), etc. I just came back from the gym and my mind feel energized.

Courtney: Those are good shows. Yes the the jets are 2-2 so hopefully we can edge out a win tonight.I have to get in a workout before the night is over.:) Working out is always a good thing so keep it up.EVen if its just for 30 minutes a day.But a strenuous workout.

Me: You are correct.
MNF is very exciting from the pregame show to the actual game. A workout in the night is excellent too since when you wake up in the morning, you feel a rush of great energy that can carry you throughout the day. Thank you Sister for your encouragement of continuing working out. I will work out whether in a gym or just using calisthenics, walking, running, or otherwise. A strenuous workout is something great. :) I usually do both cardio and strength training. I usually workout for 50 minutes in a day. A person doesn't have to workout beyond a hour per day.

Courtney: I agree, unless a person is training for something specific , working out past an hr, is a bit to much ,during a week of being busy..I keep it to 30 minutes to 45 ,every other day but it changes up.

Me: You are right. Beyond an hour is too much for my taste. I keep it simple, diverse, and unique.
In exercising, you battle against yourself since subconsciously and consciously you want to do better than yourself from a previous time. Each human is unique, so an exercise plan should be geared to a human's specific physiology.

Courtney: Yeah, like you know what works best for your body, how long, what kind of exercises to do to get certain results. i also can't do the same thing over and over when it comes to exercising or I wont do it. So I have to switch things up. :)

Me: Yes,
That is why so many human beings are embracing the plyometric exercise deal. Since those exercises are diverse and prevent plateauing so to speak. Diversity in exercise combinations is the key in creating great results. Sista, nothing wrong with keeping exercises unique and multifaceted. Keep rockin' ya great swag Sista. :) Also, I researched sprinting and HGH levels. Sprinting exercises can increase natural HGH levels massively. I did some sprinting a year ago to see if this was true. Next thing I know, I had super agility and it was a great feeling.

Courtney: I thought you were going to say," I did some sprinting a year ago to see if this was true. Next thing I know, I had superpowers, could fly, and see through brick walls or something . lmaooo. Just kidding. I will have to look into that HGH level stuff. :)

Me: LOL. Go ahead on with your bad self. :)
You are something special and I like it.

Courtney: LOL. Just silly at times.

Me: Nothing is wrong with that since your humor and silliness makes you, well YOU.
I do appreciate your gregarious Nature. :)


Courtney: Well, thank you for understanding. :)

Me: Thank you Sista Courtney.
You are gift from God. I will always respect you. We are certainly in unison in this struggle for liberation and justice. I also respect so many Brothers and Sisters here from Soultry, Erica, Dandelion, Brother Jazz, BroShabazz, Edud, etc. We inspire each other and I feel joy in communicating with you. You are compassionate and very intelligent. You have a heart of gold and I am a better man as a product of you in many ways. I wish happiness to you. I wish Blessings to you and your family. You are making your Father very proud of you. I mean that for real.
Enjoy looking at MNF. :)



Courtney: Yes I like yahoo but I like disqus too at times.:)

Me: I know you do. :)



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Courtney: Thank you truth but so many of us are. I respect a lot of what you and many of the other posters have to say as well. From ej, vanity, soultry,dande,Broshabazz,edud01, John H, and many more . They know who they are because they approach things in a decent manner. Also, there were many other posters that got banned a minute ago that had many intelligent things to say as well. A lot of information to get folks to open there eyes a bit.I



Me:
Thank you.
You always a great gift of sensitivity and strength Sister. I do feel comfortable with real folks and I embrace decent conversation. I am a man, so sometimes I roar the truth in a strong way, but Sisters can roar too. You always make me feel inspired to continue my talents on this journey for black liberation. You are very intelligent and very sweet. The interesting thing is that for years, I looked at this site with you and the other real Brothers and Sisters that you have mentioned making their comments here. It is only recently when I made comments here and I feel great about it. Each of the folks that you have mentioned have their unique styles and unique diverse talents that they give to discussing the interests of our black people (in a real way). We are all blessed to be in this generation as a means to defend our people and to love the concept of Black Love. We have to make our ancestors and the Creator proud of us and we will.
So, you should be encouraged to intrepidly live your live, to fight for truth, and to continue to be a glorious Blessing. I will always have a respect for you, Sister. You are beautiful inside and out. :)

Courtney: I cannot take all of that credit truthseeker2436577. My mother is a remarkable lady and as I get older, well, you know the saying, we become more like them. Extremely intelligent, kind,decent, overly helpful, caregiver but a fighter. She always said to me, " know when to pick your battles" and it so true. She is a very standup human being and so was my father.I often say, they do and did not play around when it came down to the seriousness of things,.My mother is a refined lady and I'm a bit more rough around the edges. :) I would not be a decent human being, if it were not for there love and guidance. So I hope to be able to pass that along someday, to my own..

But remember, this drives racist folks batty because it exposes them and their behavior,for the animals that they are. :) Sometimes, you just have to laugh at them because it's so pathetic and readable.The way that you are, takes me back to my teenage years when , we were all just inspired to do great and good things, full of vision and promise, and pulled those around us, towards one another.I'm glad that I inspire you. You inspire me too. So many decent,beautiful people on here inspire me as well as outside of the net.The internet is just another means of bringing people together,communicating and inspiring one another. Not like those that tear each other down, that make racist statements against African Americans, and people in general.Like we see many infiltrators do on this site and others. Understand, What they say and how they say it because it's who they are ,on and off of the net. That is in them and because they choose to be this way, they hate anything decent that they encounter. We remind them of what they are NOT .But, they should not make the mistake of taking peoples kindness for weakness either. So thank you. :)

Me: Yes, and your mother raised a great daughter in you. My mother is similar in being religious, a people person, kind, and still strong. She doesn't swear or curse. She loves me and the rest of our family dearly and she is conscious of world events as well. The kindness of my mother is reflected in me. The interests of politics and the mysteries of life from my father is reflected in me too.
I see that the white racist trolls are running amok. I believe this is just a blessing in disguise, because as long as we keep our composure and stick with the blueprint, then we will past this test with flying colors. It is a test sent by the Creator in my opinion to not only sharpen our wits, but to improve our spiritual growth and moral growth. What drives the racists wild also is when we explain our views in a tolerable, strong, and comprehensive fashion (as it refutes their lies and it advances the strength of black humanity).


You are a shining light and I appreciate your insight, wisdom, and strength a great deal. It seems like this year, I feel different in the sense that I am approaching my physical peak. Therefore, I have to grow my spirituality into higher heights for life is spiritual not just physical. Things happen for a reason and communicating with the Brothers and Sisters here certainly inspire me to further connect with my black essence too. Also, you are correct to say that there is a time for kindness and a time to express strength. So, keep on living your life, be blessed, and you are always a great human being Sister. You can believe in that. :) Thank You.



Courtney: Oh no i'm not a genius, I .Just like being alive. :) lol. But you are and so many others like Edud01, Truth, Jazz, Broshabazz,Ej, vanity,soultry,and other folks here not named.you guys are indeed sharp and humor is needed as well.so many ways for people to be beautiful and I love to connect with that. :)

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Courtney: did you watch Fatherless Sons this past weekend? I think another one called Fatherless Daughters is the next installment.The thing that stood out to me, was the sons and there anger towards the fathers. It all made sense ,why these young boys are acting out in certain ways.

Me: I haven't watched the shows yet, but you make an interesting, accurate point. Young boys do need strong male role models in their lives as a means to get an accurate picture of true masculinity and manhood. Many of us are fortunate and blessed to have such great male figures in our lives, but many of our people lack that influence. So, we have to keep on trying to tell many troubled youth that that the strong energy that they show (which is descended from the warrior influence from our great ancestors) can be harnessed into a more positive direction (in athletics, engineering, science, mathematics, art, music, black consciousness, and other real qualities of human life). Deadbeat parents are disgraceful and hurt young human beings all of the time. There is nothing wrong with a young boy being aggressive if it is geared into great avenues. Some want to patronize and pacify young boys, but they should not be patronized. They should be encouraged and strengthened as a means to live to their great potential. Also, young females ought to be respected as well as an excellent means to live progressively in their lives. We have to respect the masculine and feminine energies in the Universe.

Courtney: The way you speak about energy is wonderful. One thing Dr Perry said that stood out was that One of the many responsibilities of a dads role is to establish structure He said,The low tone voice of a man could crack a puppy. Very powerful statement. Then they went on to say that a father can be in the house and not be emotionally invested, leaving that kid feeling empty. Dr Geoffrey Canada, Ceo Harlem Children's zone believes that a fathers role is to be this kind ,loving, disciplinarian at the same time his actions are saying to his children and wife that,I"m here to protect you but it comes with some demands and that is, you are going to have to be a good person. etc. I do believe that we as women, women who believe and think like this, have to watch the actions of men, and look very carefully, to see if men have these certain tools to become great role models and fathers for our children.We have responsibilities towards one another as men and women. And it goes farther than, he looks good, I want cute babies.ON that show, it was said that we as a society, are at ground zero . Meaning that, a shift occurred and that fatherless children crosses all races today, all economic backgrounds. Where as before, it was a small portion of society. I saw what you wrote about the Warrior influence. :) I agree with your post.

Me: You are absolutely right. Males and females are equal in our values and intellectual gifts. In other words, we have the same intellectual power. Although, we can appreciate our emotional, physical, physiological, and other specific differences that we have as well. We are equal in our human value, but we are not totally identical. In this mutual appreciation of our values in the world (and the fight for real equality), we can have true balance (and balance is one of the great spiritual, moral principles of the Universe).
The rest of your points are excellent like usual. You are always a great blessing. Sister. :)

Courtney: We are equal in our human value, but we are not totally identical.
:) we can have true balance (and balance is one of the great spiritual, moral principles of the Universe).
Yes, we are always a work in progress and some work harder at it than others. but when you see some who purposely want to disrupt that balance for there own agenda, is when you have to cut that energy loose , if they choose not to respond accordingly to the energy that you put out. No since in going in circles,There are times when that negative energy, that others put towards you, have to be dealt with but, thats for that individual to determine for themselves.If it's worth dealing with or not.They have to find what's for them and it's o.k to let that energy, pass you by. (play on Pharcyde passin me by) :)


Me: Right, you can not pass pearls before swine. Also, you are trying to go old school on a Brother by mentioning Pharcyde. I see you. LOL.
Go ahead on with your bad self.
That song came out when I was in elementary school. I am a young cat being 29 now and being 30 by the end of the year of 2013. The big 3-0 is coming soon for me indeed. :)


Courtney: 30? you are an old soul. :) My brother turned me onto them when we were younger. My brother turned me onto a lot of interesting, fun things.. I'm not that much older than you.I have a b day coming up in a about a week.. 30's.? Great decade to be alive. I mean, all of them are great of course. :) I'm a proud cancer. :)