Sunday, July 10, 2011

Advice Galore

mghawkins1 month agoin reply to crammasters
I must say that your comments are on target. The so-called "research" is nothing more than euphemized jargon of racial supremacy that was propagated by Adolf Hitler during the 1930's and 40's. Even though the things you say are true, I must add that we should assume some responsibilities regarding the status of African Americans. For example, if one creates a child, take care of him/her as best as possible [regardless of whether the marriage remains or terminates]. Don't go out and impregnate women then leave them on their own. I am saddened by the number of black men who disrespect our women [e.g. referring to them as "b_ _ _ _ es" and "ho's"]. Also, I am surprised of the number of black women who appear to be content with those descriptions that are placed on them.

It appears to me that the issue is we must change the way we think of ourselves. I have experienced discrimination and I am also tired of hearing the negativity that is constantly placed on us. However, we must conclude among ourselves not to believe it and defy the "research" and other negative hype that is placed on us.

It is interesting that during the 1930's and 40's when segregation was at its peak, times were much tougher than today. African Americans were not only put down but beaten and in some cases killed. However, you had individuals like Jessie Owens who defied Nazi Germany's "research" claiming that they were the "superior race" by beating their fastest track star at their home. Also, the Tuskeegee Airmen who were experiments because the government wanted to conduct "research" to determine if African American military personnel were mentally competent to function effectively. Due to their determination to defy the labels that were placed on them, they became the most requested support air crew during that time.

A final note, the negativity placed on us continues because we allow it. When we collectively get tired of it, take the position to not support it [e.g. discontinuing the solicitation of the media that puts us down such as the music and the tv shows that degrade black women] and take responsibility, it will stop.
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crammasters1 month agoin reply to mghawkins
I agree, especially with blacks not allowing it into our homes, pockets, and minds.

The ONLY reason they make degrading movies, TV shows, and music, is they want to poison us against ourselves. If we stopped watching it, it would lose its power. Of course, they want non-blacks to see us a certain way, BUT if we stopped caring what other folks thought about us, WE'D GET OUR POWER BACK.

It's a mind game more than anything else, just like the Wizard of Oz. Once you STOP believing the lie, the CON has lost most of it's power.
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I agree brother! You summed it up nicely with this statement, "Bottom line, one thing that doesn't make sense (to me) is to keep comparing blacks to whites or other so-called minorities, when our histories are vastly different."

On another note: I see more WW/BM divorces than BW/BM!

One again, this sounds like another divide and conquer tactic. Neo-colonization.
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Absolutely on point as usual!

And to add...Anytime black folks even mention the ills our people have suffered for hundreds of years, we get shut down, called racist, whiners, or we hear 'GET OVER IT!"...It's like the WORLD doesn't want OUR people to heal as other nations have been aided in doing and encouraged to do.

Jewish families prosper because they allow and push the ills of the Holocaust for cultural and educational value, so as to never return to that dark place in their history ever again. Why are they never told to 'get over it already'? I say again, seems as if no one wants our race to ever heal....

And I see the opposition to us healing is working on some of us when I hear things like 'Interracial dating worked for me!!!"....Comparing the white family and the black one is like comparing a toothpick to a redwood tree....
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 crammasters1 month agoin reply to BakkByPopularDemand
Absolutely! My response is an excerpt from the book, 'Black Love Is A Revolutionary Act' -- (Chapter -- The Post Traumatic Slavery Syndrome)

Q: Isn’t it disrespectful to Jews to use the word “Holocaust” to describe the Transatlantic Slave Trade?
A: The Jewish Holocaust lasted 12 years (from 1933 to 1945). The African Holocaust lasted over 400 years (from approximately 1441 to 1865). The answer should be obvious.

Q: How should blacks respond when the Post Traumatic Slavery Syndrome (PTSS) is ridiculed or dismissed?
A: By NOT wasting our precious time and energy trying to convince anyone of what we KNOW TO BE TRUE: that 500 years of repeated trauma has damaged our entire race. What is MORE important is understanding how PTSS still affects blacks 150 YEARS AFTER slavery “officially” ended. We DO NOT NEED PERMISSION OR APPROVAL to break the financial and psychological chains of slavery. It is time to STOP asking for it. The Victims should NEVER make the feelings of their Victimizers a priority – or even a CONSIDERATION.

FACT #10: If Jewish victims and their descendants received reparations for a 12-year Holocaust, and Japanese victims and their descendants received reparations for a three-year injustice, it is LOGICAL that the descendants of the 400-year African Holocaust are MORE entitled than the Jews and the Japanese combined -- 26 TIMES OVER
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crammasters1 month agoin reply to Shaitx
I agree that blacks were not the only people who were enslaved, however, when one speaks of the Jewish Holocaust, they are referring to a SPECIFIC TIME AND PLACE -- Nazi Germany and the 12 years that Jews were persecuted.

When I speak of the TransAtlantic Slave Trade, I'm speaking of a SPECIFIC TIME AND PLACE -- The transport of African slaves via the Atlantic Ocean from Africa to North America, Europe, Brazil, and the Caribbean over a period of 400 years.

The TransAtlantic Slave Trade, was the first time slaves were deliberately
destroyed psychologically, and stripped of their identity, language, native
foods, religion, and culture and it was the most INHUMANE and WICKED form of slavery in known human history.

Whatever happened to the Jews, they STILL had their culture, names, family history, language, etc. INTACT, so I never compare my ancestors' slavery to the slavery OR mistreatment of any other people on the planet. There is no comparison -- in my opinion.

As far as who suffered more, that's debatable, especially since the European is the NEWEST arrival on the planet (less than 8, 000 years), while African peoplehave been on earth for tens of thousands, maybe, hundreds of thousands of years, so there is much we don't know about this part of human history.

Do you agree that the "Semites" in Germany were considered "non-whites" or "mulattoes" by Hitler, and this is why Hitler wanted to be rid of them? Remember, he was a fanatic about racial purity, not about religion.

That being said, being a BLACK MAN, my main concern is what MY PEOPLE went through. Just not interested in debating how much Jews suffered OR who the (real) Jews are...

Considering that Jews have received more reparations than ALL other
"victims of injustice" COMBINED, and considering that Israel is STILL
receiving foreign aid (almost 70 years after the Holocaust), some of it coming from the tax dollars of the descendants of slaves who had NOTHING to do with concentration camps,

BUT who have not collected one DIME in reparations for our ancestors' 400-plus years of FREE LABOR, that built the White House, farms, and roads of America

we are the ones who have NOT been made WHOLE, not the Jews, who are some of the wealthiest and most powerful people on the planet.

There is absolutely no comparison.
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BakkByPopularDemand1 month agoin reply to crammasters
JEWELS!!!

I just checked your 'likes' to TWO of your posts on this forum....over 100 people are diggin what you're speaking brother....You must keep doing what you're doing!
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Frienzfirst1 month agoin reply to crammasters
Thanks crammasters...I have followed this thread on such and important history lesson and agree 100% and wish that this truth was embraced and taught to our children even while in the womb! "Knowledge is power...and the truth will set us free".
Strong Black Men & Black Women UNITE & multiply!!Replace Fear of white savagery with Love for Black Power!Counter & Defeat White Supremacy worldwide,by replacing it with JUSTICE!!
At the risk of starting a flame war, I had to throw my two cents in after reading your post and that of Nspock321. This is the main reason they post these kinds of articles, to get BM and BW to bash each other.

I don't understand why black folk are so quick to act like IR dating is a solution to any of our problems. Look at all this IR Sexing we're doing and the black community is damn near falling apart.

BM unemployment is over 25%, and as men, we are building NOTHING, producing NOTHING, controlling NOTHING, yet we seem more concerned about IR dating than we are about getting ourselves and our communities into a better position.

We have a million examples of what unity can provide by looking at other ethnic groups who have strong families and strong business bases, yet we continue to do the OPPPOSITE, bashing each other, blaming each other, and refusing to look at that PERSON IN OUR MIRRORS.

Whites have a 50% white divorce rate, meaning white folks ain't getting along with each other either. The IR divorce rates between blacks and whites is even higher, meaning we don’t get along with white folks all that great, either.

So my question is -- where's the logic in constantly using IR dating as a weapon against each other when our people are in such a pitiful condition DUE TO LACK OF UNITY?

Yes, some sisters are selfish, but hell, so are we. Let’s get real about that. And most of us BM know that the FIRST person we turn to when we get in a jam is guess who? A BLACK WOMAN – our mommas, sisters, aunties, grandmas, friends, etc. Come on now…

We all have serious issues -- that come from living in the pressure cooker called "racism/white supremacy" and has made us SO INSANE, that we are beating up and blaming other black victims and putting the same people that jacked us up on a pedestal.

the absolute definition of INSANITY

When we turn against each other, we are strengthening the system of racism, and actually HELPING OUR ENEMIES by dividing and conquering ourselves.

And with a BM unemployment rate of over 25%, that we better find a way to come together to survive in this "new economy" because i guarantee you, brother, that the WW or AW (Asian woman) might fugg the hell outta you, but most sure as h___ ain't hiring you.

Have you noticed that as white women climb the corporate ladder, rising to positions where they have the power to hire and fire -- black males are falling off?

time to get a clue
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"... HOW can Black Women divorce more when they get married the least."..

Exactly....I don't think the media ever imagined any one of us would put those two contradictory stats together and write them both off as BS....They expect us to do exactly what we do and that's start beating up on each other and pointing the finger so THEY can sit back and say "'MISSION ACCOMPLISHED! The n___ are even further apart like we wanted."...Now why the n____ don't get that is beyond me but I digress...It's just like the procreation stats about us compared to other races....WE supposedly have the highest rate of ill children at birth BUT we also have the highest rates of abortion....How are our babies born in mass numbers of thousands with birth defects, when according to THEM, we don't even have our babies to begin with????
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Amen, brother,

Everybody's got some serious issues,
I know I got 'em and i've never met anyone who didn't have them,
and the worst folks are the ones who DON'T think they have any issues.

One thing I realized was BW who grew up thinking, "I want a man just like my daddy." often make good wives. Good fathers make good women. Bad or missing in action fathers make hurt, angry, and bitter women (although some sisters manage to overcome their pain).

I have NEVER met a BW who loved AND respected her father, who did NOT love BM, and who did not make a great wife.

Bottom line, our women are our fields, and our children are the crops. If we want fertile fields and plentiful, healthy crops, we must take better care of what we have. Our women and children are all we have in a system of white supremacy,

They are also our ONLY allies and the reverse is true for BW, with the BM being their only allies. If you doubt this is true, get in a jam and try to get a Hispanic, Asian, or white organization to take up your cause, and march, picket and protest on your behalf.

How many white, Asian and Hispanic females showed up the Jena Six protest for six black male strangers that nobody knew from a hole in the wall? Who made up over 60% of the demonstrators who came from everywhere in the country to that small, dusty town in Louisiana? BLACK WOMEN.

time to get a CLUE


Any black male who spends his time taking care of the white man's or the Asian male's fields should not be surprised when he has NONE OF HIS OWN and he starves to death.
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phazex_female1 month agoin reply to crammasters
Preach, Cram!!! Looking at some of the insidious remarks posted here, you wonder why Black Amerikka is in the state that it is? One "brotha" stated that "Amerikkan" Sistas are arrogant, not submissive, blah, blah, blah. And this is helping in the dialogue of bros. and sistas "healing?" If he's not part of the solution....you know the rest, Cram.

It's so ironic, as BlackBizMan suggested, how can there be high rates of divorce with sistas when other articles state that sistas marry LESS? This is why it is crucial that WE do the leg-work, the homework in dispelling the lies and continual stereotypes that are put out there about black people For we are not monolithic.

Ya gott remember that racism is based on fear. And black people are getting closer to home-truths, so yep, that scares the hell out of a whole lotta folks.

"Any black male who spends his time taking care of the white man's or the Asian male's fields should not be surprised when he has NONE OF HIS OWN and he starves to death."

Your words. Indicative of our culture, heritage and lineage. Cram, trust. They will learn... learn...believe me, many will LEARN!

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crammasters1 year ago
@ MiSz_PiNk_DiamOnd

and you never will see it on websites. No matter how WM and WW really feel about each other, they will ALWAYS present a UNITED FRONT in public.

The WM will ALWAYS uplift the WW in public no matter how he treats her in public...because he knows he way he treats HIS WOMAN and the MOTHER OF HIS CHILDREN says MORE about the kind of MAN he is, than the kind of women they are...

He knows that to maintain white supremacy, he must make non-whites, especially black people, think HE and HIS WOMAN are superior, and that means NEVER ridiculing their hair, skin or features...

However, to control US, he plants the seeds of black inferiority and self-hatred, winds us up like brainless, over emotional DOLLS and lets us walk all over each other

knowing once he convinces us he is right about us, our senseless behavior will be the main thing that keeps us enslaved, unemployed, underemployed, poor, in violent neighborhoods, with broken families and broken children...

and i will tell you this, sis, like i tell the BM who i talk to everywhere I go is -- if there is something wrong with BW, then we -- the BLACK FATHERS -- deserve at least HALF THE CREDIT.

If BW are not our dream girls because they LOOK LIKE US, have OUR HAIR, and OUR SKIN, then we are also saying that we dislike ourselves, because we -- the BLACK FATHERS -- are 50% responsible for her genes

I personally have NO RESPECT for any BM who degrades the women who look like his MOTHER, his SISTERS, HIS AUNTS, HIS GRANDMOTHER, Harriet Tubman (who risked life and limb to free slaves), Rosa Parks (who risked injury) to free us from riding the back of the bus; the young BW who started the JENA SIX protest that stopped a racist Louisiana justice system from sending SIX YOUNG BLACK MALES TO PRISON

i have YET to see any WHITE, ASIAN, OR HISPANIC women who have stood up, and raised, and nurtured, and educated, or who worked two jobs to send a black boy to college

See, i KNOW women like this, I was loved, nurtured and came from the womb of a woman like this, and I married a woman like this and there is NOTHING anyone, including a fool azz article OR poster can say to change my mind OR my opinion about black women...
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  • Brother, as long as most of us -- especially our black children who are being TAUGHT that they are inferior -- remain ignorant as to what happened during slavery and HOW it damaged us,

    and as long as we are STILL dealing with the after-effects -- the POST TRAUMATIC SLAVERY SYNDROME -- of 400 years of slavery PLUS the 150 years of racist oppression that followed,

    and finally, as long as black people -- the descendants of slaves -- are STILL practicing slave traditions (like eating throwaway foods, calling each other foul names, thinking black = ugly, making fun of our skin and hair, putting whites on a pedestal, betraying each other to get out of the field and into the (white man's) house, and still worshipping the same religion that the SLAVEMASTERS taught us (to keep us docile and slave-like), that's how long we need to talk about slavery, brother.

    Here's an excerpt from the book, "Black Love Is A Revolutionary Act" by Umoja that illustrates my point:

    Massive Injuries On Top Of Massive Injuries

    Jim S. is walking down a dark country road when he is struck by a hit-and-run driver, and sustains serious injuries. He crawls into the road to get help but it is pitch black outside. The bus driver doesn’t see him until it is too late, and Jim is run over by the bus. Jim was NOT “destroyed” by the fi rst set of injuries. He was young and strong, and had he received the help AND the time he needed to heal, he would have survived his injuries.

    However, a second set of equally devastating injuries on top of his unhealed injuries
    effectively sealed Jim’s fate. If slavery had completely destroyed African slaves, there would have been no need to create the Black Codes or Jim Crow laws. Had former slaves been allowed to HEAL from the damage caused by slavery without interference and sabotage from whites, they could have completely recovered from slavery.However, 150 years of post-slavery racism literally threw the descendants of former slaves UNDER THE BUS."
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    Now if Jim wasn't allowed to HEAL from his injuries (slavery), he is in a MUCH weaker condition that makes any OTHER injuries possibly fatal. That is the point, brother, we were NOT allowed to heal from our injuries (slavery) which means we need to understand the damage that was done before we can be fully WHOLE.

    What is your opinion of the Jewish Holocaust (that lasted 12 years -- 388 years LESS than our African Holocaust? Do you think they should "get over it," stop taking aid from US taxpayers, stop hunting Nazi war criminals, and close the Holocaust museum?

    Just curious -- no disrespect intended















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    crammasters1 month agoin reply to deshawn121
    If your want to find solutions to your problem, you have to start at the beginning.

    I agree that we shouldn't skip any parts of our history. If you re-read my first post, you'll see that I did not skip over Jim Crow. To save time, this is what I posted:

    "OR had they gone through 100 years of "legal" and brutal segregation and poverty, and their "progress" overturned every time they tried to get back on their feet."

    that 100 plus years would cover the Black Codes, Jim Crow, legal segregation, the civil rights movement, and the crack cocaine "drug wars"

    You're right about us being more family oriented (before integration), because our marriage rate was higher during the Great Depression than the white marriage rate. I suspect we might be on the page, but hit a bump in the road to communicating

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    venitabrooks1 year ago
    How any race of men,can degrade,demean and disrespect his own race of women,yet worship,love,lust and defend his opressors is a lost mind and a slave. Quote from the great crammaster
    venitabrooks1 year ago
    Divide and conquer, I don't see how interracial datingg and marrying benefits blacks collectivly. Interracial relations aides in further dividing an already divided race. It aides inn the destruction of the black family,yhe black community and black love. This ir crap is only being promoted to blacks and of course we are falling for it. All other races understand the importance of racial unity,strong familys,procreation with their own and marriage with their own except for selfhating,slaveminded and brainwahed blacks,esp some black men. Blacks are losing their minds,,identity and selfrespect in their pursuit of non blacks that is very evident by some of the comments. Smh
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    rayskilla61 year ago
    No disrespect to anyone, BUT REAL BLACK MEN AND BLACK WOMEN prefer to BE WITH EACH OTHER. BECAUSE THE UNITED BLACK MAN AND BLACK WOMAN IS THE MOST POWERFUL FORCE IN THIS WORLD NEXT TO THE CREATOR. THE POWERS THAT BE KNOW THIS, THAT IS WHY ESPECIALLY TODAY THEY SEEK TO DIVIDE US AND FORCE THIS INTERRACIAL DATING THING DOWN OUR THROAT AND TRY AND GET US TO TEAR EACH OTHER DOWN. IF YOU CHOOSE TO DATE INTERRACIAL THAT IS YOUR LIFE, BUT IN MY OPINION YOU ARE THE ONE THAT IS LIMITED. BLACK MEN SHOULD BE WITH OUR BEAUTIFUL BLACK QUEENS, AND VICE VERSE, PERIOD. BLACK KINGS AND BLACK QUEENS UNITED IN LOVE

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    easy_one651 year ago
    I think that it's all about the business of genetics. White people ain't stupid, but they ain't got much time left either (majority status)...So, the best thing to do is steal all the money (TARP bailout), keep us confused/bickering/fighting/hating one another until they get A-L-L of our @zzez on the train to you-know-where!...and continue the business of sterilizing the Black woman and keeping the Black man locked up/powerless/broke...WAKE UP PEOPLE!!!...
    crammasters1 year ago
    @ kewlbabe1

    rethinking my earlier post to you, I realized I was too harsh, so let me rephrase it in the form of a question to you:


    What if there were over one million more WW than WM; almost half of WW were single; over 70% of white children were being raised by single white females, and BW were coming into your white communities, and telling WW like you to "mind their own business" when it came to WM? Would WW tolerate that with a smile?
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    THANK YOU.

    BM who date WW are forever with that bull___/sob stories; when as recently as 20 years ago (in the 80s), they would have got their black behinds tarred alive for accompanying a white woman to certain neighborhoods in New York (of all places). But let scary-a___ black men tell it, it's Black Women who are giving them the most grief; negros please.

    Although Some BW have disdain for interracial dating THE TRUE HATE that is exhibited towards these unions are from White People, still. There STILL exists in this country families that will skin a White girl alive if she brings home a black boy, yet, black men who love white woman are constantly acting as if "black women mad." I call Bull___! Remember how 'Dog The Bounty Hunter' true colors were revealed when his son exposed how his father/Dog really felt about his black girlfriend. Dog ain't the only white person who feels this way about IR dating/marriage. So, my question to Taye and 'nem is why aren't y'all talking bout that S___, huh? Yeah, I know, it's easier to throw shade on black women about this controversial subject, then conquer the dragon of white prejudice. Whether actors, athletes, public figures Or Not, their Coward a)))s won't touch that subject (i.e., talk about all the white people who give their a____ the business) with a ten-foot pole.:sid efrown:
    -VDiva
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    Don't have to add much to this clip, since it speaks for itself. However, two things come to mind



    #1 -- The "sexual" attraction of many white females to black males is what we call "The Beauty and the Beast Syndrome" (which we cover in detail in our second book). Basically, this "syndrome" (fantasy) allows the unattractive, ordinary, or below average white female her best (and sometimes only) opportunity to feel "special" and "superior" in a "romantic" relationship.

    The ordinary, low-status white female can't feel superior to the white male (who has more power and status in a male-dominated society BUT she can feel superior to the black male. With the black male she becomes the "white prize," who has sacrificed her "pure white femininity" to the hyper-masculine, primitive, animalistic, savage, hyper-sexual, black stud, 12-inch walking P*ENIS black male beast -- her own real life starring role as Fay Wray in King Kong -- OR in the example in the video clip, she becomes Becky, the slavemistress, abusing her own personal N____ slave (revealing how she really feels about blacks, including the one she is sleeping with).



    #2 -- Bet MONEY, this black male is dark-skinned and the white female is below average in appearance, intelligence, morality, and accomplishments. It is obvious the black male caller has a black inferiority complex and has submitted to white supremacy -- wearing the HUMAN FACE of a white female -- to the extent that he lacks the self-esteem and the SELF-RESPECT to ward off a psychological attack from his racist white female companion.



    Bottom line --

    Until black folk understand how closely INTERRACIAL SEX between blacks and whites is linked to racism/white supremacy and WHITE DOMINATION via sex, we will continue to put ourselves in the self-disrespecting position of sleeping with our enemies and deepening our own PSYCHOLOGICAL, ECONOMIC, AND POLITICAL ENSLAVEMENT.



    (much thanks to nodoubt10 for providing the link to this video!)

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    crammasters1 month agoin reply to soultry-soul
    she deserves -- as do all my beautiful black sisters. No man can be better than the place he comes from and if we all understood that, we'd know that putting BW (or BM) down is the same as DISSING ourselves.


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    karamelkitti1 month ago
    I loved me when I was thinner and I love me as an ultra thick chick. The point being love yourself first and always consider yourself beautiful. Sexy has nothing to do with the clothes you wear. It is a state of mind. When you work out and eat healthy, let it be for your own well being and not to please others. Surprisingly, I've gotten much more attention as a thick chick than I did when I was a lot thinner. But then, as a 37 yr old woman, I know exactly who I am and what I desire in a man.....and I'm not scared to look any man in the eyes and tell him what I want. Late6Knight is correct, confidence is alluring on a woman.
     
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    crammasters11 months ago
    Rush is simply doing his job -- he's a paid "entertainer" whose job is race-bait. He is the flip side of the white liberal and black puppet whose job is to oppose Rush. Same people pay both sides. white folk and black folks fall for the hype yet remain in the dark.
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    No need to hate (Rush); appreciate the brilliance of playing both sides of the so-called NONEXISTENT right and left, and playing the black and white public for SUCKERS...while they take all our money and run it over to the Swiss bank accounts...
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    we have got to start being more logical, less emotional and put on our thinking hats and start asking "why" is the same thing happening over and over....?

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    MzNuBreed101 year ago
    Ok this topic has come up so many times and again I personally don't believe black women have issues with interracial relationships, but as a black women I personally get tired of seeing alot of successful black men who think to get a latino or a white women is a"upgrade" and once they are successful they no longer even look in a black womans direction. Don't get me wrong you love who you love, there's a difference between i met a woman and fell in love with her and she just so happen to be white and i looking to fall in love and marry a white woman. But for all fo these black men who think a latino or white woman is a upgrade just assume if you were working at walmart would she still want you?

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    momo28
    Yeah we live in a new day and all. But I do see this constant disrepect towards women of color by these white guys in Hollywood. I never seen Denzel or Forrest Whitaker go out of line towards any white woman. When Denzel presented the oscar to Nicole Kidman,she gave him the moment to kiss her in the mouth like Adrian Brody did Halle Berry the previous year. But Denzel, out of respect for his wife and himself,choose not to go there. From Dorthy Dandridge to Sanaa Lathan, we are still on the plantation. They are serving up masta like it's cool..
    prettyfaceAKA
    That's how they treat women of color in Hollywood...U are thought of as the "hot blooded" this or that...they stereotype U as a whore...they let it be known to those young Black starlets...that if U want to be in my movie...well U gotta "trick off"...U just a "cheap trick"...I'm so not impressed with Black movies stars of our generation...because the majority of them have been turned out and tricked on to get movie roles...that's the fact jack...
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    WandaLouise wrote:


    That is a generalisation.Some women do some women don't. More and more now when i go out I see mixed race children with their black mums. i used to see more white women with mixed kids but now these days they are mainly with their black mums.
    SO WHAT?...YOU SEE MORE BW WITH MIXED CHILDREN....SO DOES THIS MEAN THAT THEY JUST "LOVE WM IN GENERAL"....NO NOT AT ALL....SOME OF THESE SAME WOMEN WOULD DATE THE NEXT BEST THING THAT COMES ALONG...BLACK,WHITE OR OTHER....

    WOMEN GO AFTER MEN WHO MAKE THEM FEEL SPECIAL AND WHO THEY BELIEVE HAVE THE NECESSARY MEANS TO LOVE,SUPPORT AND PROTECT THEM....

    IN THE LAST TWO YEARS NOW...I'VE HAD FOUR DIFFERENT BW WHO HAVE HAD MIXED CHILDREN MAKE THEIR INTEREST IN ME KNOWN....USUALLY BY STRIKING UP WHAT THEY HOPED WOULD BECOME MEANINGFUL CONVERSATIONS THAT WOULD LEAD TO MORE.....SO WHERE WAS THIS GREAT LOVE OF WM AT THAT TIME!.....NONSENSE!

    IN THE LAST TWO WEEKS....JUST BEFORE GOING ON VACATION WITH MY FAMILY AND RETURNING LAST EVENING....I HAVE HAD THREE EXPERIENCES WITH ASIAN WOMEN....NOT BLACK,NOT WHITE,NOT HISPANIC....BUT PURE ASIAN WOMEN....THE FIRST OF WHICH TOOK PLACE AT MY SONS SUMMER CAMP AT U OF M.....WHERE A SINGLE ASIAN MOM WAS CLEARLY TAKEN BY ME AND STARTED UP A CONVERSATION DESIGNED TO GET ALL OF THE FACTS...*THE LOOK ON HER FACE WHEN MY WIFE SHOWED UP WAS PRICELESS!

    SO THE WHOLE WM//AW THING MAYBE COOLING OFF FOR SOME ASIAN WOMEN....AND EVEN THOUGH I'VE HAD SIMILIAR EXPERIENCES WITH AW WHO HAVE SHOWN INTEREST....IT'S BEEN A MOMENT....SO I WAS CAUGHT A BIT OFF GUARD FOR A MOMENT....I'M USUALLY PRETTY FOCUSED ON MY WIFE,CHILDREN AND WHAT I'M DOING....HELL THAT'S ENOUGH TO BE CONCERNED WITH!.....I HAVE MY HANDS FULLL....

    BUT AS I STATED SHE WAS THE FIRST OF THREE ASIAN WONEN IN THE LAST TWO WEEKS....WHO ALL MADE THEIR INTEREST KNOWN....BY ONCE AGAIN....ATTEMPTING TO MAKE A CONNECTION WITH ME.....ONE WAS UP NORTH IN MICHIGAN WITH A WHITE GUY....WHO CLEARLY SHOWED SIGNS OF BEING INSECURE AND CLINGY.....IT WAS SO BAD THAT HE PUT HIS ARM AROUND HER WHENEVER SHE APPROACHED THE AREA THAT I WAS IN AT THE GROCERY STORE THAT WE SHOPPED AT DURING OUR WEEK AND A HALF LONG TRIP THAT WE TOOK WITH TWO OTHER FAMILIES....AND THIS WOMAN'S DISPLEASURE WAS CLEARLY EVIDENT....THAT IS...IT WAS PRETTY CLEAR THAT WHATEVER THEY HAD WAS ABOUT TO END SOON!

    SO SHOULD I ASSUME THAT ASIAN WOMEN LOVE BM....NO I DON'T THINK SO....WHY?....BECAUSE FIRST OF ALL MOST ASIAN WOMEN FOR ALL OF THEIR BEHAVING AS IF A WHITE BOY IS A SUPERNATURAL BEING AND THEM MARKETING THEMSELVES TO AND
    DATING/MARRYING WHITE GUYS....

    MOST ARE STILL WITH ASIAN MEN....NOT WM AND CERTAIINLY NOT BM!....

    SO EVEN THOUGH I HAVE HAD EXPERIENCES WITH ASIAN WOMEN PURSUING ME....BOTH IN THE PAST AND LATELY....ME ASSUMMING THAT "ASIAN WOMEN LOVE BM" WOULD CLEARLY BE INACCURRATE....

    SORRY!


    -The Moor

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    crammasters1 year ago
    peep the game, folks

    WHO keeps planting these divisive articles about interracial relationships and pics of BM with WW? Who owns these websites and pays the authors of these articles?

    Who plasters "IR love" ads all over EVERY BLACK PORTAL on the internet? Who PROMOTES and REWARDS these "black celebrities who proudly choose anybody but a black man or woman? Who owns the magazInes that print these interviews?

    Once you answer those questions, you will see what is happening: DIVIDE AND CONQUER THE BLACK MALE & FEMALE

    Notice, while blacks are being PUSHED (SHOVED) toward IR, the same corporations are NOT pushing IR on white websites and in magazine articles aimed at white people. They are TOO SMART to divide and conquer themselves...ONLY their enemies (us) are being encouraged to do it...

    and for those who think the whites who get involved in IR are significant, let me drop some FACTS on this thread.

    1. Whites are the LEAST LIKELY to date OR marry outside their race. Less than 3.46 percent of whites marry interracially.

    2. The black/white marriage is the LEAST COMMON interracial combination out of all the the other white/non-white unions

    so, while we're fighting over the MINORITY of white males and females who choose blacks (they choose us, we don't choose them), we are destroying our children, families and communities, as we attack each other's character.

    And for those BM who are using the BW as a punching bag for their insecurities (and u know who you are), let me remind you, brothers, of a universal truth: demoralize the mother; destroy the child; destroy the children; destroy the future.

    I have a BLACK WIFE, a BLACK DAUGHTER, and a BLACK MOTHER, and do NOT understand for the life of me, how ANY BM with an OUNCE OF SELF-RESPECT can uplift the same (white) women who have participated in his enslavement OVER the women who raised, loved, and nurtured and many times educated him....

    The fact that we keep falling for the SAME BLAME GAME that began during SLAVERY -- to demonize slaves to such an extent, they began to demonize each other -- is proof of how far we have to go to UNDO the damage that makes us CONTINUE the same slave traditions that will keep us psychologically and financially enslaved.

    it's the same thing that made Tiger lose his fortune to a white nanny who went from having NO POT to p*ss in to being one of the richest women in the world.

    If we keep playing this foolish, self-defeating game -- knowing damn good and well ALL WE HAVE IS EACH OTHER -- then maybe, we will deserve the fate we will get.
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    crammasters11 months ago
    @ odoggz

    one thing i would add is back in the day, black folks married each other, lived next door to each other, helped each other, and raised the next generation together, sometimes grandma, grandpa, momma, and daddy under the same roof.
    ---
    what kills me is all over these black websites, some black folks are praising IR, yet will be all disappointed when black people have no collective power, no community, and no ability to create our own institutions.
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    how the H do we think that happens? By the men and women of the same ethnicity coming together. The reason Arab and Indian men can come into our communities and get rich is they STICK TOGETHER, AND SUPPORT EACH OTHER.
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    you don't see them jumping off the boat, trying to find a white person to date or breed with. They know they aren't white, they know they never will be white, but they know there is POWER in having a business base.
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    black males and females will have to make a choice -- very soon
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    1) ethnic unity and a chance at prosperity
    OR
    2) disunity, IR, and economic SLAVERY. it's just that simple...

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